First of all this is my first post on the site and I have been lurking on it for a long time. I have read the bible and I have put many of the principles to work in my life and have enjoyed some great success because of it. The thing is I'm not sure whether or not I should next this girl or not.
First of all we dated 6 months ago and we came to a conclusion that things had happened to fast for what I was looking for and we then decided it would be best if we ended things. So for the first month everything stayed the same. I grew tired of how things were staying the same even though we weren’t dating so I broke away and stopped talking to her except once a month for 5 months. One of the times that we did talk she told me that I was more than a friend to her.
So now we are at the present time and all of a sudden out of the blue she shows up at my friends house who I'm living with and she starts flirting with me hardcore. At this time she was talking to the guy that she would eventually date for a couple of weeks (I feel he is just a rebound). So it really through me off when she did this. So another month down the road she saw me at Church and calls my name when I was getting ready to leave. So we ended up talking for a little while and ever since then she has started texting me and calling me and inviting me to always hang out with her. A lot of times I have stuff to do so I will not go and hang out but sometimes we do and she is always trying to talk to me or about me and we are both really sarcastic with each other so sometimes that throws me off on what she is thinking about me. I'm not giving her too much one on one time just because I'm not sure how in to her I still am. The other day I mentioned I hung out with some other girls and I got the reply Oh and then she immediately invited me come over to her house so she could teach me how to cook something. So then last night when we were hanging out she started talking about the guy she dated for a couple of weeks and I didn’t pay much attention to it. One other thing that might be of interest is when we are alone she is much more flirtaous with me than when her roommate is around us. I think this is because she doesnt want to appear like she still cares about me to her roommate.
So I'm pretty sure she is really into me but what do you guys think about second chances in relationships? Do you agree that she into me? Also do any of you think this might be her just being an AW? The guy and her broke up not to long ago but like I said I feel like he was just a rebound. Any other comments you have would be appreciated.
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I'm 20 and she is 24 and just to give a little more info.
First of all we dated 6 months ago and we came to a conclusion that things had happened to fast for what I was looking for and we then decided it would be best if we ended things. So for the first month everything stayed the same. I grew tired of how things were staying the same even though we weren’t dating so I broke away and stopped talking to her except once a month for 5 months. One of the times that we did talk she told me that I was more than a friend to her.
So now we are at the present time and all of a sudden out of the blue she shows up at my friends house who I'm living with and she starts flirting with me hardcore. At this time she was talking to the guy that she would eventually date for a couple of weeks (I feel he is just a rebound). So it really through me off when she did this. So another month down the road she saw me at Church and calls my name when I was getting ready to leave. So we ended up talking for a little while and ever since then she has started texting me and calling me and inviting me to always hang out with her. A lot of times I have stuff to do so I will not go and hang out but sometimes we do and she is always trying to talk to me or about me and we are both really sarcastic with each other so sometimes that throws me off on what she is thinking about me. I'm not giving her too much one on one time just because I'm not sure how in to her I still am. The other day I mentioned I hung out with some other girls and I got the reply Oh and then she immediately invited me come over to her house so she could teach me how to cook something. So then last night when we were hanging out she started talking about the guy she dated for a couple of weeks and I didn’t pay much attention to it. One other thing that might be of interest is when we are alone she is much more flirtaous with me than when her roommate is around us. I think this is because she doesnt want to appear like she still cares about me to her roommate.
So I'm pretty sure she is really into me but what do you guys think about second chances in relationships? Do you agree that she into me? Also do any of you think this might be her just being an AW? The guy and her broke up not to long ago but like I said I feel like he was just a rebound. Any other comments you have would be appreciated.
edit:
I'm 20 and she is 24 and just to give a little more info.