Not sure what to do.

[DoItAgain]

I'm a 26 year old virgin, though I did date a HB8-8.5 last year and did "everything else" (we were only dating shortly and started fighting with each other before it got to the sex part.) I'm at a point in my life where I'm happy with myself, love life, and don't really care about being a pick-up artist or anything, and don't in particular want a girlfriend either. If a quality woman wanted to come along for the ride, fine, but I'm happy single or not single.

However, I have an intense and reluctant obsession with sex that goes beyond any normal guy interest. It's kind of like that Simpsons episode where Bart keeps hearing about the Itchy and Scratchy Movie and he isn't allowed to see it so it just makes him want to see it even more...then he finally sees it years later. Not getting sex and not getting attention from attractive women until very recently has screwed with my head.

It doesn't help that I live on the northeast coast where there aren't a lot of attractive to begin with and the 6s act like 10s and the few 9s/10s there are think they sh*t ice cream.

I'm above average looking...not a hunk or model, but better than most (which is how I got my ex) so looks aren't a problem, and I'm outgoing in the right situation...but I have no opening skills whatsoever...at least in situations like Supermarket Clerks/Hostesses at restaurants.

When I was on vacation and saw women on the beach or on the boardwalk, I could open them easy, but in the northeast, there aren't as many "hangouts" if any. If you say hi to a woman, even a 3 or a 4 she looks at you like "Why are you saying hi to me?"

My only goal is to lose the V card to a woman I'm reasonably physically attracted to. She doesn't have to be my ideal or dream girl or anything...just merely cute.

I'm unsure, however, where to meet such a woman (No bars and clubs in my area other than white trash biker bars) and also how to assess if she's the type that makes you wait months to have sex.

 

[Nygard]

Some people are not supposed to get women in life. Life is short, enjoy it in your own way.

 

[DoItAgain]

I'm not concerned about getting a long-term girlfriend or being a pimp. I'd just like to lose the V-card to a cute woman (without paying for it) so I can move on with my life. By cute, I mean merely a 6 or 7.

 

[DoItAgain]

I don't even know what's gotten into me or what I stand for anymore. My hormones are so out of whack and telling me to do contradicting things that it's hard to have a rational thought of any kind.

I'll admit, hormones or no hormones, there is a curiosity to be naked in bed and have sex with (what I consider) an attractive woman, but my hormones make it much, much worse than it has to be. Whether it's virgin curiosity or an indication of hormone overload remains to be seen, but I don't know how it will be seen.

I shouldn't have to move or go on a long-term vacation to lose my virginity. It's not like I'm looking to have sex with a model...just want to find another 6 or 7 that is aware that she's a 6 or 7 and doesn't have entitlement mentality.

 

[Galactus]

I know a lot of people would disagree with this, but I think it's time for you to get laid any way you can. Well, I mean with a full-grown adult woman, but beyond that, you just might need to lower your standards.

You may have to bed a beast. Get a few beers in you if that's what it takes. Normally I wouldn't recommend this, but you need the experience. You need to wake up the next day feeling that stress relief. But be careful you don't get her following you around, or she could mess up your chances with the better-looking ones.

I say get whatever vagina you can, so you don't get too used to virginity. Next thing you know, you'll be rampaging through a mall with a handgun. Or collecting action figures. Stop the insanity, just get laid. Worry about quality later.

And wear a condom. Maybe two.