"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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cali51

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I got a number from this random girl, but she was just visiting my town. I got her number on the basis that I visit her city(3hrs away) from time to time. We've texted back and forth a few times. Mostly flirting and ****.

Anyways, this is a low investment kind of situation. So I have 2 options.

a)**** it and move on - don't see the point in keeping in contact. I don't visit her city that often

b)flirt with her on text - BUT "what's the point?" is what I keep asking myself.


What to do in these situations, if anything?


Btw, I couldn't close the deal that night b/c the logistics just weren't there. :(
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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TheException

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Never delete numbers....you never know. I would just never text her because its wasted time and desperate. You may get a random text one day telling you she is in town, and if you have to ask " Who is this?" Its game over.
 

PlayHer Man

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Nothing.

Are there not girls to f*ck where you live? Why are you even thinking about a girl living 3 hours away? :crackup: :crackup:
 

adam225

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Lol, or just keep it for a rainy day when you're passing through her town. F*ck driving all that way to meet her though.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

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