"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Not sure what to do in this sitatution

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A couple weeks ago, I went out with a girl. Nothing clicked and nothing happened. I thought it was a lost hope. So I stopped calling her and completly ignored her until she came to her senses.

Then, recently, she started talking with me again, even in public. We go to college and now she talks to me again. I'm not sure what to do in this sitatution. I don't want to give her a call back right now because then I'll come across as desperate. Should I wait a few days to call her, or not at all?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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WTF U DUM AZZ LOL U SHOW HER IOI ? I mean come on how do you knock out the other cavemen in the other cave ? FUCIN USE UR COMMON SENSE MAN YA DIG? Plz man i dun want you missin out on the girl u like just cuz u don know what to do and cuz of what might happen......IF SHE TALKS TO YOU SHE LIKES YOU.. could be a inner game problem first like i use 2 you feel? I WAS ALL DEPRESSED AND FELT LIKE **** ALL THE TIME, until i started excercisin and dietin healthy u feel? SO PLZ MAN FUCIN GO FOR IT AND BE THE AGRESSER DON BE THAT LIL ***** CUZ SOMEBODY ELSE IS GONNA HIT THTA SIMPLE AS THAT.


AIGht heres a prospective that i do that really helps out a lot, PUT YOURSELF IN A GIRLS BODY.. and then think how would i want to be treated by a guy, how would i want a guy talk to me and take care of me ya dig? AND THEN BE THAT GUY MOTHA FUCA . GL
 
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Vikman said:
A couple weeks ago, I went out with a girl. Nothing clicked and nothing happened. I thought it was a lost hope. So I stopped calling her and completly ignored her until she came to her senses.

LOL. Well you are not lacking in confidence.

Then, recently, she started talking with me again, even in public. We go to college and now she talks to me again. I'm not sure what to do in this sitatution. I don't want to give her a call back right now because then I'll come across as desperate. Should I wait a few days to call her, or not at all?
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Call her if you want to do something with her. Don't call her just to say "hi". If you do something fun, she'll want to tag along. Girls hate it when guys have fun without them.
 
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DonJuan11 said:
Call her if you want to do something with her. Don't call her just to say "hi". If you do something fun, she'll want to tag along. Girls hate it when guys have fun without them.
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If you say so, I guess I'll call tommorow and see if she wants to do something "fun".
 
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