"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Nightshade

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Just moved in to University halls (equivalent to College dorms in the US, I think) and I've been talking to this girl that I wanna have sex with.

She's been giving me all these signals that she's interested but she has a boyfriend.

Suggestions please?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Run your game on her as usual, take her out, slow and steady on the kino, do it all. But if at any point of time you realise she's playing games or giving excuses not to escalate, be indifferent. Don't be too surprised if she just wants attention out of her relationship. Easy on the emotions, just have fun.
 
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