"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Not sure if I've really messed this one up...

Hyper2010

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Hi Guys,
Pretty bad situation I'm in at the moment...My GF kicked Me out just three days after she gave birth to our twins. Since she came home from the hospital she was really moody and wasn't loving and needy towards me like she was before they were born. Back then I suppose she was struggling with walking, money, not feeling good about herself etc...

Anyhow we had an argument over something she started, and she decied she wanted me to go and threatened to call th cops if I didnt. Admittedly I did get very angry with her, but it was no worst than any argument we'd had before. I got upset, begged her to let me stay and even cried. She hasn't rung me of her own accord today at all, and I do love her so much...

Do you think this is repairable, or is there more at steak on my behalf, ie self respect/esteem which is the real reason she dosent seem to want me anymore. Please be honest, as I would appreciate any advice at a time like this

Yours

Uncle P
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Laracuente

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She can call the cop's on you anytime and they won't even listen to your side of the story be careful. Get a lawyer is a good idea...you might have to pay child support.
 

Hyper2010

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The only thing which stopped her calling the police is that in England, if you call the police whilst children are around social service get involved instantly, and she is a primary school teacher, which wouldn not look good on her CV...In regards to child support, we once had a discussion about such matters when she was 6 month gone, she then got angry and wrote and signed a handwritten document that I would never have to pay it, nor would she chase me for it
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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