Not sure how to approach this

[Fortzen1305]

So before Xmas break I met girl, we went on 2 dates & kissed. I then left for 3 weeks in which we texted (that could have been the death touch to this) and she would respond back (and still does , quickly) and would seldom initiate. Before I got back the texting diminished greatly and when i did return, she left for a weekend in Chicago (that was this previous weekend). No comm at all. By this point we weren't texting much at all. We were going to hang out the night she got back but she texted me how tired she was so I said, "get some sleep and we'll hang out another time". She said "yea for sure". I've not called or texted her ( she works nights during the week) or heard from her so I'm not really sure if I should:

A) wait it out and let her initiate with me
B) ask her to do something this weekend in hopes I don't come off needy
C) tell her I'm going to be out Friday and she should come meet up
D) call it a wash and next her

Help

 

[SeymourCake]

A for 5 days. If she does not initiate until then, then D.

 

[pdx1138]

I've had this happen too. A New girl that's initially very interested will be difficult to lure back if a bunch of time passes
without seeing them in person.

Keep her number. Don't contact her.
If she doesn't reach out to you within 30 days you will probably never hear from her again. Leave it at that.

 

[GotED?]

This is called 'Spinning Plates' by the blue phucks on here.

Translated to AFC language: Get your ass going and find other women to see/date.

Stop having ZERO options - oneitis is on the horizon

Don't waste time with women less than 100% interest in you.

Be well.

Exodus

 

[Uncharted]

You should not be worrying about this one girl because you should be busy dating other girls.

I'm a fan of persistence when done right, though. I say call her up and ask her out. If she gives you any crap, onto the next.