"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Not sure about this one fellas..

JohnChops

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Whats up suavers, hope everyone is going out and killing it this weekend.

My weekend starts today. So about a month ago I get invited to go to this concert by one of my friend's sister's and their mom, sister asked me first then the mom apprently wanted to go too. Turns out today is the day, I forgot about it since work and applications have been keeping me busy.

Reason I am making this post is because I feel like this is going to be weird as fvck. I've gotten the flirty vibes from this girls before, and the mom texts me almost all of the time asking when we are all going out to do something. She apparently goes out to bars and stuff a lot.


What's my play here. Obviously, I am going to enjoy the concert (the band line up is epic!) but how do I make this not awkward. I know, it is only awkward if you make it awkward but this situation just seems all types of odd and this is not in the realm of any situation I have experienced before.

What advice does the crew here at SS have for me.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Casillas

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My advice is to enjoy the concert, you said that the line up is epic, and also they invite you? Is a win-win situation if you handle it the right way. Don't worry about the little thing man.
 
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