"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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not sure about this, but a new idea...

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so i've been hearing on this site that you should be the one to dump the girl first, and not the other way around. so say you've gone out with this girl for a while and you know her friends pretty well, but if you broke up with her, all her friends would probably hate you. so what i'm thinking is, try to find a way to get her to break up with you by being a REALLY NICE GUY so then her friends wont hate you and you'll come off as a good guy?

hmm?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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negative... i'm sure shes going to tell her friends that youre a total douchebag wussy boy. and they wont hate you... but they'll look down on you.

girls can hate you and be attracted to you or think youre hot at the same time... but if they have NO respect for you and your personality... theres no way they'll give you a chance.
 
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no man. just break it off with her. have you learned anything here?
 
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Hate you? Im sure they will love you, i bet the chick cant wait to break up with you by lookin at your post. :nono:

Your thinkin like a puss. What you must do is think like a men. Who gives a **** they will hate you? who gives a **** what they think about you, as long as you are proud of who you are, everyone will look up to you. So what you must do is brake up with her and END it. No one will hate, its life. if they do hate you, **** em.
 
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look man, just get 2 da point n ditch diss girl, wether it good or bad her freinds wont hate u, thats if u dont give a **** wot they think n act like a man n take control, den day will hav no choce but 2 luv u
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I bet this puss just got dumped and is crying which is why he's not posting here recently.

idiot
 
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Just break off with her.

You're harbouring a slight AFC tinge.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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