"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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not sure about this, but a new idea...

Crazy Asian

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so i've been hearing on this site that you should be the one to dump the girl first, and not the other way around. so say you've gone out with this girl for a while and you know her friends pretty well, but if you broke up with her, all her friends would probably hate you. so what i'm thinking is, try to find a way to get her to break up with you by being a REALLY NICE GUY so then her friends wont hate you and you'll come off as a good guy?

hmm?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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negative... i'm sure shes going to tell her friends that youre a total douchebag wussy boy. and they wont hate you... but they'll look down on you.

girls can hate you and be attracted to you or think youre hot at the same time... but if they have NO respect for you and your personality... theres no way they'll give you a chance.
 

Potbelly

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no man. just break it off with her. have you learned anything here?
 

shydude

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Hate you? Im sure they will love you, i bet the chick cant wait to break up with you by lookin at your post. :nono:

Your thinkin like a puss. What you must do is think like a men. Who gives a **** they will hate you? who gives a **** what they think about you, as long as you are proud of who you are, everyone will look up to you. So what you must do is brake up with her and END it. No one will hate, its life. if they do hate you, **** em.
 

java01

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look man, just get 2 da point n ditch diss girl, wether it good or bad her freinds wont hate u, thats if u dont give a **** wot they think n act like a man n take control, den day will hav no choce but 2 luv u
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Potbelly

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I bet this puss just got dumped and is crying which is why he's not posting here recently.

idiot
 

SiYuan

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Just break off with her.

You're harbouring a slight AFC tinge.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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