"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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not stereptyping but myspace and others

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seems to be where the most wierd people go

Im not here to say what is normal or not...but I know most of the guys here..dress much alike and try to do the in pop culture thing more to be attractive.

I was on myspace..and I noticed..tons and tons of guys on there are wierd as ****..as well women. with clothes, NEGATIVE OUT LOOK ON LIFE, and with the high number of lesbians, BI's and attention *****s.


one more reason to really look out when meeting off the internet.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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i'm gonna go out on a limb and guess you've never actually met anybody from myspace
 

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I keep getting messages from attractive women telling me to go visit their web cam website.

Myspace is just another one of those websites where people can w-hore each other left and right.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
seems to be where the most wierd people go

Im not here to say what is normal or not...but I know most of the guys here..dress much alike and try to do the in pop culture thing more to be attractive.

I was on myspace..and I noticed..tons and tons of guys on there are wierd as ****..as well women. with clothes, NEGATIVE OUT LOOK ON LIFE, and with the high number of lesbians, BI's and attention *****s.


one more reason to really look out when meeting off the internet.
And you haven't noticed this in REAL life as well? :confused:
 

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I suppose where I live..in the Midwest..st louis.

these people arent around..our goth community is slim to none..our skaters are slim to none...and ive never see 1 gay couple out here.

dont get me wrong..Im not trying to be prejudice..infact this post..probably makes me look that way.

the only thing around here is alot of white people and black people. its very diverse in that aspect..except the whites and blacks only live together in st clair county.


I guess I am too subjected to the hiphop/countr culture..those are the 2 big ones around here.

I was hated on by this guy with long black hair..and he wore eye liner...I guess tht stuck with me.


anyways that was a waste to say...I wont say anything more on it..and just talk to people like me.

and yes Ive met 1 girl on myspace..****ed her the night i met her...I guess she was easy. but Myspace is boring...meeting in person makes it a much better expiernece.
 

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In the month I have been on mycrack err I mean myspace, haha, I have met 5 girls in person. 3 were fat trolls who looked nothing like their pics and the other 2 were hot. You just play your odds and be careful. I have also met some cool guys from myspace, DJ's and whatnot. Its a great place to network and get the word out on local parties, demo releases etc.

I have about a hundred and twenty or so friends on there, mostly hot local chicks. I am not real into meeting chicks online but you know what, if you know what your doing it can be great. It is easier than clubbing. I once met a chick online that lived in Australia, well I ended up living with her for 3 months down unda! Beat that!!
 

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i've met 3 girls, all of which looked like there pictures, give or take a few things but i mean people always look a little different in person than from pictures. unless they took 5 hours trying to get that perfect angle then they look complete oppisite of there picture

there are some good people on there though.
 
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