"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Not seduction : She is bored without me !

Mitza

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In this topic i don't want to talk about seduction, i just want some opinions, and ideas.


I have a girlfriend HB 9,5 she is very beautifoul, our relation is good, but i don't have enough time for her because i have an exam soon.Since i can't give her my time, she complaining to me that she is bored, and is sad because she doesent have friends.

She tell me that she can't have friends because :

- All her male friends fall inlove with her
- All her female friends get jelaus on his succes with boys and with me

What should i do with her ?

1.I tell her subscribe to a new place where she can meet new people (dance classes, drawing classes, etc)
2.I said her that nobody is perfect and she have to accept the person the way he/she is.I said that to her when we tryed to define a model of how she wanted to be her new friends.
3.I tryed to show her the pleasure of a hobby.

Since i don't have enough time for her, she is bored.When i have time for her is good, but for the next 2 months i have just a little free time for her.What should i do ?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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spider_007

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never sean a hot chick without any friends............
she might be too uptight..........

bored without you, and here i thougt that was a good thing.
 
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duttylove

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This girl is very boring, she needs to get a more active social life. your ideas about joining a dance class or some form of club is good!

just make sure she knows that you have exams and are not telling little white lies, she may need some reasurrance now and then.
 

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Originally posted by Mitza
In this topic i don't want to talk about seduction, i just want some opinions, and ideas.


I have a girlfriend HB 9,5 she is very beautifoul, our relation is good, but i don't have enough time for her because i have an exam soon.Since i can't give her my time, she complaining to me that she is bored, and is sad because she doesent have friends.

She tell me that she can't have friends because :

- All her male friends fall inlove with her
- All her female friends get jelaus on his succes with boys and with me

What should i do with her ?

1.I tell her subscribe to a new place where she can meet new people (dance classes, drawing classes, etc)
2.I said her that nobody is perfect and she have to accept the person the way he/she is.I said that to her when we tryed to define a model of how she wanted to be her new friends.
3.I tryed to show her the pleasure of a hobby.

Since i don't have enough time for her, she is bored.When i have time for her is good, but for the next 2 months i have just a little free time for her.What should i do ?
This one is interesting! She doesnt want female friends because of the jealousy/catty female BS, and she doesnt want male friends because they all wanna f*** her brains out. The solution? Easy, get her some homosexual male friends, there is no jealousies involved, and these guys dont want to get into her panties, they just want to borrow them. Straight women usually LOVE gay men.
 

Skullcrusher

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Wow, where do all these clown ****ers meet all these HB9s-10s? Either they're bull****ting or something else!

Anyways this girl is an attention *****, she doesn't have any female friends cause they don't put up with her ****, this is bad!

And anything that's coming out of her mouth is trash, remember that *****!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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