Not Saying hello and going without the 3 Second Rule

[drixsa]

last night; big party at a friends house

i am playin beirut with this HB8.5 (Beirut )

i see this chick walk in 5'5" brown hair, green eyes, big breast, skinny. (just the way i like 'em)

she looks at me and im havin an awsome time. nailing shots left and right, puttin some kino on with my good looking beirut partner

so i see the oppoutunity to go say hello, meet this girl, etc.

then i think to myself, lets make her wait and see if that works
(damn my brain, i was actually thinkin smarter with my Dyck)

so after our game is done i go outside and talk to some friends

then i see her sittin on the couch play a beer game

so i go in and introduce myself...nothin.

she was boring but it just felt like all the interest she had for me was gone.

so is there any way to raise the IL without even saying anything?

 

[Julian]

Wink at her. Like as she walked in, you should have been doing some Kino on whoever you were playing with and at the same time give her a sly smile and a wink. She will immediatly be intrigued, not knowing if its your girlfriend or not.

Then after you can do the approach and say that you noticed her come in and go from there.

 

[Deadly_Assassin]

she saw you macking it with some other hot chick, this would have definetly made her notice you,but you shouldnt have hesitated when you got the opportunity to talk to her.

I think some detailed info would help on what made you think that she had low IL in you later on when you went and talked to her.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Hmmm, why didn't you introduce yourself, spend a couple of minutes or two impressing her with your personality, introduce her to a group of your friends and then excuse yourself to talk to another HB?

 

[drixsa]

Originally posted by Deadly_Assassin
she saw you macking it with some other hot chick, this would have definetly made her notice you,but you shouldnt have hesitated when you got the opportunity to talk to her.

I think some detailed info would help on what made you think that she had low IL in you later on when you went and talked to her.

i honestly dont know, i think she may be a bit of a ****-tease from what i saw later in the night

but i have learned that trying new ideas arent the best way to go in this dept.

 

[drixsa]

Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Hmmm, why didn't you introduce yourself, spend a couple of minutes or two impressing her with your personality, introduce her to a group of your friends and then excuse yourself to talk to another HB?

like i said, i wanted to try somethin new to see if i could make an impression without saying anything or even acknowledging her

i was also in the middle of an intense beirut game so my free time was mininal

also i dont ususally introduce a girl i want to my friends

they are pretty good PUAs and they will usually come to talk to me

 

[hardwork]

Discussion

 

[drixsa]

ok so here i go to try to fix my mistakes

ill add info if she is at this party tonite

 

[-HPNOTIQ-]

drixsa.

It depends if she noticed you looking at her. If she didn't see you looking at her, most definately her IL level will be higher than if she did see you notice her.

She didn't see you looking at her -
By you not noticing her, her IL is raised. All she see's is this great, happy go lucky guy, who has a pretty nice 8.5 girl next to him = I wonder what his deal is? He didn't notice me. Sooo, maybe he'll notice me later, and I'll get to know him then. I wonder what it'll take to get him to notice me.

She saw you looking at her-
By you looking at her, she has a bunch of thoughts racing in her head. = He saw me, but he's not approaching - Maybe that 8.5 girl he's with is his GF.

I think you played it right. You finished your game, had fun, laughed it up with the peeps, and enjoyed time with an 8.5. Next time this happens and the girl notices you, I'd give her a huge goofy smile, show her you're having a blast, and invite her to join.

 

[drixsa]

Gig- i am quite scared actually

ok i found out the reason behind it all

the 8.5 that i was playing beirut with (who i ended up hookin up with that night) is friendly with the girl i was lustin after

b4 i had a chance to talk to her, the 8.5 told her that she wanted me. so the girl i wanted jus dropped me

i found this out when this girl was drunk last night and wouldnt be quiet

turns out she is quite a b!tch so it all worked out for the better

Gig-if u wanna drive out to my neck of the woods their may be a lil get together goin on tonite