Not responding to text Sh1t Test

[Meisterman]

Say a girl has very high IL. Yesterday she invited me over, we caught up for a bit, and then she asked to chill friday and/or sat. She said Friday she was gonna chill and drink with a big group of friends (AKA girlfriends + AFC orbiters) and Saturday she was free and had the place to herself. So obviously today (Friday) she texts me "Hey!! When are you coming over?" And I tell her I can't make it tonight, but ask if she's still on for tomorrow. 5 hrs ago no response.

I think she's pissed at me flaking, but I don't care cuz I didn't want to go tonight. Now if she doesn't respond, should I send her another text tomorrow asking her what's up? Or apologize for flaking? (She's been pissed at me for flaking once before).Or should I just not reach out at all even though I wanted to see her then (Saturday). I'm not one to ever double text, but I wonder if this is an exception since I've been a little cold lately.

What do you think is best to do in this situation? P.S. If we do hang out tomorrow, chances of s*x are 100%. If I went tonight, it probably would have been under 20%.

 

[Daniel_March]

Ever seen Wolf of Wallstreet? Pretty funny film because it involves a bunch of situations from real life. One of them is the way sales work.

At the moment you are the salesman, your product is the sexy time you can provide for her.

She is the customer.

You pitched your product via text... NOW, the first one to speak is the one to lose!

I do that in sales all the time...that silence is crucial to sealing the deal.

DO NOT TEXT HER AGAIN, RESPECT YOURSELF MEISTERMAN. Remember that you have the cohones between them legs so use them with purpose.

If she doesn't text back, fvck it she doesn't want you as much as you want her. Wait for her to text back.

Meanwhile, why don't you text another girl???

 

[Meisterman]

Yeah that's what I'm thinking too. Only thing is last Friday she apparently invited me over to her place too, but I never got her text, so she thought I ignored it and got pissed off, saying it's rude to ignore it, even though when I saw her yesterday I told her I never received it and didn't just ignore it (which is true). Now it's like she's trying to give me a taste of my own medicine or something lol. Man....

 

[Daniel_March]

Meisterman, let's face the truth. Neither you nor I can read minds. We can only make assumptions and we can assume anything and jump from one idea to the next.

If you do not know for certain what is up with her, don't waste your time on it. Rather do something constructive like reading posts on sosuave or picking up a psychological book on social interaction.

The girl could lose her phone...or maybe not even receive your text like you did not receive hers. The possibilities are countless so calm down...BE COOL. BE THE ICE COLD MO_FVCKER that you are and occupy your mind with something else.

 

[Meisterman]

Lol @ a girl losing her phone. Maybe when hell freezes over. But yeah I get your point.