Abbott
Master Don Juan
But who has the cheaper gasoline?
I don't know what it costs there, but I'd bet that my $2.50/gal. is el cheapo. That's $.379/litre for you to compare it to.
Ben
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Not replying to TXT messages?
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I don't know what it costs there, but I'd bet that my $2.50/gal. is el cheapo. That's $.379/litre for you to compare it to.
Ben
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
PeterCrouch
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Lol fair point but i dont buy petrol so i spend my money on texting! heheOriginally posted by Abbott
But who has the cheaper gasoline?
I don't know what it costs there, but I'd bet that my $2.50/gal. is el cheapo. That's $.379/litre for you to compare it to.
Ben
Plain & Simple
Senior Don Juan
the company im with does the samehing, 10 cents to send and 10 cents to receive, i still use it though and my bills come out not too bad
I used to be anti-text msg too, but they're really more useful than you might think.
A phone conversation can go in any direction at any time. If the girl asks you something you don't want to answer, you can't just hang up (well you can, but you know what I mean). With text messages, you only say exactly what you want to.
They're also good when you're in class or in a noisy environment (club, bar, party, etc).
Text messages are best used to convey a quick funny message. C+F is great with a text message. It should not be used as a normal method of communication, rather as a way to express a quick thought or feeling that doesn't need a reply.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.