"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Not replying to TXT messages?

Abbott

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Originally posted by PeterCrouch
Text messaging and MSN are the best things ever! Perfect for chatting to and meeting up with gals!

BTW Im from England and no one here has to pay to recieve a text message!

USA really does suck doesnt it!
But who has the cheaper gasoline? :p

I don't know what it costs there, but I'd bet that my $2.50/gal. is el cheapo. That's $.379/litre for you to compare it to.


Ben
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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PeterCrouch

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Originally posted by Abbott
But who has the cheaper gasoline? :p

I don't know what it costs there, but I'd bet that my $2.50/gal. is el cheapo. That's $.379/litre for you to compare it to.


Ben
Lol fair point but i dont buy petrol so i spend my money on texting! hehe
 

Plain & Simple

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the company im with does the samehing, 10 cents to send and 10 cents to receive, i still use it though and my bills come out not too bad
 

Interpol

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Originally posted by backbreaker
i kid you not, I owned an onlinec omputer company for 3 years, the biggest computer company in our state. Can put together a PC in my sleep, but I for the life of me can't send a text message!


What's the point? Think about the irony here...

You have a PHONE. INtead of going to speed dial and SAYING what you want to in the PHONE, you TYPE ON THE FREAKING DAIL PAD what you have to say?

That's just as bad as thoose 1-800 free sex talk Text chat services!
I used to be anti-text msg too, but they're really more useful than you might think.

A phone conversation can go in any direction at any time. If the girl asks you something you don't want to answer, you can't just hang up (well you can, but you know what I mean). With text messages, you only say exactly what you want to.

They're also good when you're in class or in a noisy environment (club, bar, party, etc).
 

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Text messages are best used to convey a quick funny message. C+F is great with a text message. It should not be used as a normal method of communication, rather as a way to express a quick thought or feeling that doesn't need a reply.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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RoeCyris

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i didnt bother reading most of the posts but in response to the original question I offer this advice. to avoid further annoyance that she wont respond just CALL her when she txt's you. Just a casual "hey whuts up?" call.
 
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