Not really getting too many opprotunities for pickup...

[HardTimes]

Anybody else in the same situation as me?

I made a thread earlier of perhaps going to bars/clubs during the week in addition to the weekend but that didn't really pan out (couldn't find anybody reliable to go with). I am really try my best to put on as much day game as I can and even sometimes making excuses to go out hoping I'll run into some girls but it just isn't happen.

I really have up my friendliness and sociability these past few weeks by talking to EVERYONE (both guys and girls) and making small talk with anybody I can, but it just isn't enough to actually put down some game.

Any suggestions?

 

[scrouds]

Move? You live in the city, the country or the burbs?

 

[HardTimes]

Move? You live in the city, the country or the burbs?

City, but it's more of a lifestyle/occupation thing than anything else I would guess. I work in a cube for 8 hours a day in an office full of guys and don't really get out much other than shopping sometimes during the weekday. The only time I can game is if I specifically go out to do so.

 

[scrouds]

So get out there. I moved from the burbs right into the middle of this town they call a city. Hell, I can walk outside and if its nice out there are chicks delivering themselves passed my place. Now if i had a job downtown too, i'd be set, but I commute into the burbs and see the girl shortage all the time.

When I lived in the burbs it was just like you say, no girls around, period. Find out where the hot single girls live in your area and move there.

Also, go out for lunch. You don't have to sit in the cube farm all the time noshing on your pbj sandwich.

Get some hobbies?

 

[xdreamz]

i've been in that situation for quite a while ... i suggest getting everything together like some school or work then u can meet the right kind of people that share the same interests in picking up girls, while meeting some prospects as well. that's my plan. if u do go to the clubs to take ur chances you should be able to meet at least 1. if that fails then you have to create opportunities. try going outside to the world where there are people gathered and work your game to anyone that you find attractive...don't wait too long though because the right one might pass you by a second too late.