Not really attracted to her physically

[SikWitIt]

So i found out this girl at work liked me had no idea who she was at first, but then i started getting these little notes on my desk like "hi cutie" "hey cutie".

Anyway eventually i found out who she was an she left a note on my car with her number an asked me to call her.So im guessing i got an afc chick after me. So on a scale of 1-10 she's probably a 5 but hey i was in a bind not really putting myself out their, so i gave her a call an we talked an we actually have alot in common.

So we ended up renting a movie going back to her place the movie sucked... so we watched ice age an sumhow we ended up in her bed watchin that, but i didnt do anything with her so we just talked,laughed an did a little huggin.

I like talking to her, first girl i had anything in common with other then hey your hott im hott lets hook up you know? So like last week another girl asked me if i wanted to go to the game with her on saturday so i was like yea..then this chick calls me up an asked me to go to the same game with her on saturday an i say yes...Yea i dont know what i was thinking.

So i guess the question is would you get with somebody that you wernt really attracted to physically but mentally?

 

[selfmademob]

this thread is useless without pictures

 

[realsmoothie]

So i guess the question is would you get with somebody that you wernt really attracted to physically but mentally?

Yes. Well, sorta.

I started hanging out with this girl who I wasn't TOTALLY attracted to. I mean, it was like she was cute 1/2 the time... just really really skinny. Beautiful face.

But our personal connection was ridiculous, just perfect. I got to really liking her as a person, and all of the sudden the half-desire I'd felt at the start turned into an incredible need to pleasure this girl.

My guess is that if you hang around this girl for a while you'll become increasingly attracted to her. HOWEVER... as has been shown on this forum for ages... the longer you go without showing some interest and "getting it on" the longer you risk getting into the permafriend zone.

 

[ElChoclo]

This thread does not really deserve a reply, but since I randomly opened it;

1 Anyone can have sex with someone when they are attracted to them. It takes real mental discipline to do it when you are not attracted to someone.

2 Would you "get" with someone? I assume you mean sex. Yes, why not. You enjoy talking with her, you were willing to get into bed with her and she wants it. Is there some sort of entry requirement, no pun intended, for women to have sex with you?

 

[pvf94]

if you went as far as you did, atleast let her suck it

 

[mrRuckus]

i think i want an afc chick. well, a pretty afc chick.

 

[Plec07]

I'd go for it as long as she isn't ugly to the point it puts you off, which it obviously doesn't as if it did you wouldn't even be considering her.

I myself like this girl that isn't particularly hot, no where near what my ex is like but there's something about her which really make me like her (I just wish i could discribe why lol). On top of that our personalities click really well and after that's probably more important if you want your relationship to last.

 

[THE_ADDMAN]

If she doesnt attract you, what are you doing with her?

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

...So i guess the question is would you get with somebody that you wernt really attracted to physically but mentally?

No where is it written that a guy has to get with every woman that shows him attention. Having standards isn't always a bad thing.