"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Not really about girls - social issue

j8snx1

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Dude...we share 90% similarities man; everything is the same for me as well, excluding the party/drinking stuff.

I managed to get out of the niche I was originally in(the kids I hung out with since 9th and 10th) since they were all smokers and wannabe gangsters. However, I can't find a nice place to settle in.

What I do is just act as a nomad and roam around from group to group, while attending school clubs at the same time. It keeps me on my toes and on the bright side, I get some exercise.

So yes. My tip is to be a nomad and be your own group. I think this might go well with you being unique and different from the majority...basically creating your own character as opposed to following what your friends do and how they behave...

...at least that is what I believe.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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