"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Not Nice guys V.S Jerks it's Nice guys and Jerks

Rint

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I've been going around and making girl friends and i build a good rapport with them then i ask them what do u want in a man? In conclusion i put this together

Nice Guy: The women who like nice guys are the nice ones you guys know them the cute ones who are all innocent and stuff. They like a nice guy cause they feel comftable with them. Compliments are the key to winning them over clever sweet and nice compliments.

Jerk: The really hot popular girls like this kind of guy cause he dousn't come off as horny cause he dousnt give a damn how he treats her. He also dousnt treat her like everyone else how everyone is telling her how she's pretty the compliments are scarce from the Jerk.

Don Juan: The master far better then both of these guys. Don Juans can read people and know if they prefer or a jerk and they have the perfect attitude that women who like jerks or women who like nice guys both want. In fact Don Juan is better for all girls then the Nice Guy or the Jerk.

This is what i think comment on me!

*A drop of knowledge is greater then a river of strength*
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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toddC

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i'm a natural nice boy...what are some things i can do so i can be a jerk to some chicks?
 

oakraiderz2

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Originally posted by toddC
i'm a natural nice boy...what are some things i can do so i can be a jerk to some chicks?
Make fun of them when they do/wear something stupid.
 

ethnomethodologist

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Originally posted by Rint
This is what i think comment on me!
This has been said before, so I can't comment on you... I can comment on what your copying....

It is very true that girls don't want ONLY a jerk, or ONLY a nice guy... they are looking for the perfect combination of the two.
 

Rint

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Really they wrote this already? I've been walking around being the Jerk and being hated then being the Nice guy and then becoming popular. Where's the post?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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j8snx1

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Yep. This HAS been asked plenty of times...but here's my 2 cents!

What I do is, I blend them both:

Be a jerk by poking fun with ****y/funny, kino, jokes.
Be a nice guy by scarcely using compliments(only using it on the things that most guys tend to ignore on the girl).

Actually, I dunno what I do. I never did keep track after being the nice jerk; I guess I got used to it. The whole C&F becomes natural once you get the hang of it, but that's only the beginning.
 
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