"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Not Nice guys V.S Jerks it's Nice guys and Jerks

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I've been going around and making girl friends and i build a good rapport with them then i ask them what do u want in a man? In conclusion i put this together

Nice Guy: The women who like nice guys are the nice ones you guys know them the cute ones who are all innocent and stuff. They like a nice guy cause they feel comftable with them. Compliments are the key to winning them over clever sweet and nice compliments.

Jerk: The really hot popular girls like this kind of guy cause he dousn't come off as horny cause he dousnt give a damn how he treats her. He also dousnt treat her like everyone else how everyone is telling her how she's pretty the compliments are scarce from the Jerk.

Don Juan: The master far better then both of these guys. Don Juans can read people and know if they prefer or a jerk and they have the perfect attitude that women who like jerks or women who like nice guys both want. In fact Don Juan is better for all girls then the Nice Guy or the Jerk.

This is what i think comment on me!

*A drop of knowledge is greater then a river of strength*
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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i'm a natural nice boy...what are some things i can do so i can be a jerk to some chicks?
 
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Originally posted by toddC
i'm a natural nice boy...what are some things i can do so i can be a jerk to some chicks?
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Make fun of them when they do/wear something stupid.
 
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Originally posted by Rint
This is what i think comment on me!
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This has been said before, so I can't comment on you... I can comment on what your copying....

It is very true that girls don't want ONLY a jerk, or ONLY a nice guy... they are looking for the perfect combination of the two.
 
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Really they wrote this already? I've been walking around being the Jerk and being hated then being the Nice guy and then becoming popular. Where's the post?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Yep. This HAS been asked plenty of times...but here's my 2 cents!

What I do is, I blend them both:

Be a jerk by poking fun with ****y/funny, kino, jokes.
Be a nice guy by scarcely using compliments(only using it on the things that most guys tend to ignore on the girl).

Actually, I dunno what I do. I never did keep track after being the nice jerk; I guess I got used to it. The whole C&F becomes natural once you get the hang of it, but that's only the beginning.
 
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