crazyIrishman
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Man. I feel so duped. Im generally approaching relationships where I don't pay for dates until I'm in a long term relationship with a gal. From my experience all I've met are women who within three weeks flip out on me and every excuse was pathetic.
I realize that there was instant sexual attraction but I didn't want to rush. Three times I been pressured into sex and a relationship. These women rush in FAST and did love bombing. Then did completely change into a psychotic bitches and just outright cruel
First one excuse was she was trying to get custody of her kid, we were dating, fb in a relationship, then she said the lawyer said to HIDE her relationship, I immediately got suspicious, so I put my relationship status on single well, I told her we can be "seeing each other" but it's not a relationship because I was trying to be supportive. But she got mad and ghosted me lol.
So I decided to try and date a 51 year old woman. Well I thought she may be more mature. But apparently not when I first went to her apartment she still had pictures of her ex all over the place who was 33 years old!!!!!! I thought it may been her son. She took the pictures down, she says she loves him as a friend and the day before I had a surgery she showed me he bought her a bracelet, I got PISSED and then she said something about money and I ended it with her. I was really disappointed.
So recently, I'm a pagan and I'm not sure if I should be one anymore but I don't like Christianity Islam or Judaism. Atheism seems nihilist to me. So I met this girl who said she was a pagan and a witch 36 years old. Fairly attractive. We seemed to mirror each other really well and finish each other's sentences. She's told me about her issues with drugs and alcohol in a 8year marriage. She use to be into polyamorus relationship but now she said she doesn't share but I beg to differ. So she's mentally 19 years old, multiple personalities and bipolar. She's on disability and she claims to have adoptive parents ... Her adoptive mom was 43.... On a date they both came and her "mom" talked to me more than my date .... She has mentioned that Gabby gets permission from her and gets spanking, with a switch.... as for real and claims nit **** at all .... Well she said her "parents" don't party and that the girl Gabby I was on date with was trying to get her life together. Ugh after we met the"mom" continued to talk to me and asked me what sex toys to get for me and my date and I'm like "that's intimate and a couples thing" and she said she swears it's not a 3 way relationship... I'm like "better not be I'm a one man person". She kinda stopped talking after that and so on second date when I was gonna meet her they talked about going to some club I thought they don't party or whatever, etc well... When I said I dont go to clubs , because I won't drink and drive and I'm already gonna be nervous driving by myself because I almost lost my life in an accident last year I was in a wheelchair for a year and currently walking with a cane. .....she did got pissed at me.
I want a girlfriend. LTR , I'm not disrespectful and I'm not ugly but these are the types I keep encountering...
So what do you think?
I'm open to any constructiive criticism
I realize that there was instant sexual attraction but I didn't want to rush. Three times I been pressured into sex and a relationship. These women rush in FAST and did love bombing. Then did completely change into a psychotic bitches and just outright cruel
First one excuse was she was trying to get custody of her kid, we were dating, fb in a relationship, then she said the lawyer said to HIDE her relationship, I immediately got suspicious, so I put my relationship status on single well, I told her we can be "seeing each other" but it's not a relationship because I was trying to be supportive. But she got mad and ghosted me lol.
So I decided to try and date a 51 year old woman. Well I thought she may be more mature. But apparently not when I first went to her apartment she still had pictures of her ex all over the place who was 33 years old!!!!!! I thought it may been her son. She took the pictures down, she says she loves him as a friend and the day before I had a surgery she showed me he bought her a bracelet, I got PISSED and then she said something about money and I ended it with her. I was really disappointed.
So recently, I'm a pagan and I'm not sure if I should be one anymore but I don't like Christianity Islam or Judaism. Atheism seems nihilist to me. So I met this girl who said she was a pagan and a witch 36 years old. Fairly attractive. We seemed to mirror each other really well and finish each other's sentences. She's told me about her issues with drugs and alcohol in a 8year marriage. She use to be into polyamorus relationship but now she said she doesn't share but I beg to differ. So she's mentally 19 years old, multiple personalities and bipolar. She's on disability and she claims to have adoptive parents ... Her adoptive mom was 43.... On a date they both came and her "mom" talked to me more than my date .... She has mentioned that Gabby gets permission from her and gets spanking, with a switch.... as for real and claims nit **** at all .... Well she said her "parents" don't party and that the girl Gabby I was on date with was trying to get her life together. Ugh after we met the"mom" continued to talk to me and asked me what sex toys to get for me and my date and I'm like "that's intimate and a couples thing" and she said she swears it's not a 3 way relationship... I'm like "better not be I'm a one man person". She kinda stopped talking after that and so on second date when I was gonna meet her they talked about going to some club I thought they don't party or whatever, etc well... When I said I dont go to clubs , because I won't drink and drive and I'm already gonna be nervous driving by myself because I almost lost my life in an accident last year I was in a wheelchair for a year and currently walking with a cane. .....she did got pissed at me.
I want a girlfriend. LTR , I'm not disrespectful and I'm not ugly but these are the types I keep encountering...
So what do you think?
I'm open to any constructiive criticism