Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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not masturbating in preparation for valentine's day

hitchcock1

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Hey guys, I've been dating a chick for a few weeks and we have a date coming up on valentine's day. With my last girlfriend, when we had sex I could never ejaculate probably bc i j'ed off too much. Believe it or not, that ended our relationship bc she felt uncomfortable with that.

With this chick, I will hold off for one week and see how it goes. If I cannot score, I will keep holding off until I finally do. Anyone have any other suggestions?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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YellowPeril

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You can only hold off for so long before you stop making any more ***.

Holding off is great, but there's no shame in j/oing like.. twice a week, maybe.
 

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'The masturbation discussion (merged threads)' under The Archive - almost 80 pages now - enjoy, lol.
 
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