"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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not masturbating in preparation for valentine's day

hitchcock1

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Hey guys, I've been dating a chick for a few weeks and we have a date coming up on valentine's day. With my last girlfriend, when we had sex I could never ejaculate probably bc i j'ed off too much. Believe it or not, that ended our relationship bc she felt uncomfortable with that.

With this chick, I will hold off for one week and see how it goes. If I cannot score, I will keep holding off until I finally do. Anyone have any other suggestions?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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YellowPeril

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You can only hold off for so long before you stop making any more ***.

Holding off is great, but there's no shame in j/oing like.. twice a week, maybe.
 

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'The masturbation discussion (merged threads)' under The Archive - almost 80 pages now - enjoy, lol.
 
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