"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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not masturbating in preparation for valentine's day

hitchcock1

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Hey guys, I've been dating a chick for a few weeks and we have a date coming up on valentine's day. With my last girlfriend, when we had sex I could never ejaculate probably bc i j'ed off too much. Believe it or not, that ended our relationship bc she felt uncomfortable with that.

With this chick, I will hold off for one week and see how it goes. If I cannot score, I will keep holding off until I finally do. Anyone have any other suggestions?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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YellowPeril

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You can only hold off for so long before you stop making any more ***.

Holding off is great, but there's no shame in j/oing like.. twice a week, maybe.
 

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'The masturbation discussion (merged threads)' under The Archive - almost 80 pages now - enjoy, lol.
 
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