Not making any progress with this girl

[Mr_Pink]

I posted this in my journal, but nobody has responded to it yet, so here it is again. Anyways, I've been casually going out with this girl as friends for a while now. It started back when school started up. One night (first time out), I asked her to Homecoming and got shot down. Next night I pulled an AFC in my moment of weakness when I saw her at a party, and told her I like her. I know, horrible move. She told me that she just wanted to be friends.

So, that's what we did for about a month. We still got together, but not often, and only as friends. I saw her at the Homecoming dance, and asked her to dance. We danced for a minute until she ran off with her friends, making me feel like crap. So, the next day, I nexted her, told her we needed to take some time apart, and stopped driving her home and such.

That was a month and a half ago. Now, we're hanging out a lot more often, and we IL seems higher. Read my journal (link in sig) for more specifics and such.

Anyways, this weekend, I hung out with her twice and made very little progress. I don't want to get stuck in the friends rut with her again, so at a party on Thursday, I want to make my move. And it has to be a big move for this to work, not just kino and crap. I mean like go in for a kiss, or say something big, or something. Any suggestions??

If you want more background info on this, like I said, link is in the sig VVVVV.

-Mr. Pink

 

[Slickster]

The fact that she's rejected you in the past and you seem to be desperate and rushing this thing causes me concern. I think if you try anything now it will fail.

She doesn't sound interested. Sorry.

Move on to someone else. If she's a friend and knows you are pursuing others she may start to come around.

Don't ever tell a chick you like her.

 

[confus4ever]

I've had the same experience as you. In my experience she said that she had a crush on me. I went for the kiss but never made it because she had a boyfriend.

Be careful, don't get your hopes up.....................but, i say go for it. Try for a gentle kiss. If she turns away...then maybe just stay friends, if you can deal with that.

Women are weird, sometimes they'll turn away from a kiss just to F@ck with you.
You have to anaylize they're every move

 

[Mr_Pink]

Slickster, read my journal, the background info may change your opinion. Some people (Legolas) have brought up some good points that make it seem like she may be intrested. I actually have a good mutual friend going to do some digging for me tomarrow, to find out what's the deal. He can get away with it too. He said something about us making babies in front of the both of us, and she didn't care at all, so this guys question won't affect anything. And I know to take whatever he says with a grain of salt.

Anyways, any more advice??


-Mr. Pink

 

[Slickster]

Yeah don't get your friends to do your job.

I didn't read your journal but if you think she's genuinely interested a kiss test will give you your answer.

 

[Mr_Pink]

I know, he isn't saying anything her. Just prying to see if she has any intrest. I'm gonna come up and talk to her during lunch, and once I leave he's gonna ask her what's up between us, and let me know what she says. Just a little sampling of the water.

Now read the journal... lol

-Mr. Pink