Not letting parents get you down?

[ElStud]

Haha, I hate when you're trying to improve yourself and become a better person and your parents just say some sh*t that breaks the forth wall. For instance, my mother and father both say I'm lazy when they don't know SH*T about what I f*cking do. And lol it's just hard not to get p*ssed when your parents say stupid ignorant sh*t like that. And that's the problem, my parents think they know every f*cking thing. Anyway how do you guys deal with this?

 

[Slick101]

Get them together on the couch and have a talk with them...

Tell them you are grown and some decissions you can make yourself...

Once you get your parents together and talk to them as a tribal leader.... it will make them realize that you are already grown...

You get the flow?

 

[sprint]

no man, I hear ya. It pisses me off somewhat when my parents or friends say ****. I guess you just need to learn to let it go. I've learned to not respond to people who try to bring you down. I think I'm a pretty laid back individual. But if I just get pissed and say something people usually back down pretty fast.

 

[Slick101]

You have to remember that even if you are 65.... you will still be their "child"

Many parents are old school... like mine.... I just tend to agree with them to make them happy... but still go about my way (In the right way though)

 

[nubian-knight]

Im not old but i realised this recently.

Your parents are not your enemies and the majority have the best intentions for their kids.

If their annoying or come off as douchebags, just do what i do with my dad and pretend to agree with evreything he says while actually DOING whatever i want to lol

Arguing with parents is circular. Just say "ok your right" then proceed to do whatever you want. Then if they yell at you more say "your right, i was wrong"

just continue this over and over