"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Demon Wolf

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I called a chick last night and did not leave a message. I also had my number hidden so it would not show up on caller ID like the DJB says too.

THis is so she does not have a chance to reject right?

If I see this chick in class today should I mention I called or just talk to her and be cool and not mention it?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Oh yeah, I'd rush to answer a call from a blocked number...
 

Skel

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Why would you hide your number? Do you want to be a telemarketer?
 

Vulpine

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Eww...

I get about 5 "restricted" calls a day. They are from chicks trying to be sneaky because they are cut off and I won't answer their attempts to contact me.

restricted = stalker/psycho

Don't be ashamed of calling, and don't be afraid to be rejected.

If you call, leave a message, and move on. If she doesn't respond, that's her tough rocks.

You didn't read "He's just not that interested in you", so you can't be expected to adhere to those rules. Besides, you don't want to be with a chick that bases her life on that crap, do you?

No return call = "She's just not that interested in you"

No big deal. Next.
 

Demon Wolf

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Thanks for the advice. I will call her again with my # not blocked. She does not call back forget her.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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