"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Not Keen On My Girlfriend Going To Clubs & Bars?

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First of all OP, when I say this, just know that I have your best interest at heart. It's not just that you can't control the frame, this b1tch is scum on the bottom of the toliet seat and you are the guy that licks it off hoping to find a good bit among all the turd. YOU ARE A FvCKING LOSER. Only a loser dates women older than himself and allows her to dictate the rules, wtf is wrong with you??? Do you have some kind of mommy complex? The friends I have all date women 10 years+ younger than themselves and those women are begging MY loser friends to marry them. What is there to gain from sex with Cthulhu?

You said she has 3 teenage daughters of legal clubbing age? You should be banging them!


Bars are for limeys,cvnts and hipster faggots. Go to a rave, you'll have the time of your life and there will be tons of horny women dancing around in next to nothing. I used to get dressed up in big furry pants with 100's of little necklaces and bracelets and dance around like a maniac, I would always have women coming up and talking to me....

Half of you dudes sound like really boring sticks in the mud who aren't capable of picking up sh1t with a poop and scoop. You buddy, need to get some money together, book a flight to wherever the next huge rave is going on and forget about Krusty the clown. Then take a picture with you surrounded by a ton of young girls having a crazy time and mail it to her thanking her for introducing you to the rest of your life.

BTW she IS fvcking other guys or she wouldn't be disrespecting you like that, I would put money on it. She knows you're a loser, what man would take a single mother, seriously. I live for threads like this, I can't believe the sheer amount of stupidity that passes for normal in today's world.
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Soulforge you are on the right track---this bothers you as it should.

My question is what the hell is a 45 year old woman doing drinking 3 times a week and going out to clubs??

You do have to set standards as to what you will tolerate, but you cant buy a pig and then tell it that it can't roll in the mud. I see this all the time, guys settle for these mediocre-quality women and then suffer all this stress because of behaviors they exhibit which are really at this point part of their personality.

An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure.....CHOOSE RIGHT FROM THE START and you wont have these problems!!
 

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First of all OP, when I say this, just know that I have your best interest at heart. It's not just that you can't control the frame, this b1tch is scum on the bottom of the toliet seat and you are the guy that licks it off hoping to find a good bit among all the turd. YOU ARE A FvCKING LOSER. Only a loser dates women older than himself and allows her to dictate the rules, wtf is wrong with you??? Do you have some kind of mommy complex? The friends I have all date women 10 years+ younger than themselves and those women are begging MY loser friends to marry them. What is there to gain from sex with Cthulhu?

You said she has 3 teenage daughters of legal clubbing age? You should be banging them!


Bars are for limeys,cvnts and hipster faggots. Go to a rave, you'll have the time of your life and there will be tons of horny women dancing around in next to nothing. I used to get dressed up in big furry pants with 100's of little necklaces and bracelets and dance around like a maniac, I would always have women coming up and talking to me....

Half of you dudes sound like really boring sticks in the mud who aren't capable of picking up sh1t with a poop and scoop. You buddy, need to get some money together, book a flight to wherever the next huge rave is going on and forget about Krusty the clown. Then take a picture with you surrounded by a ton of young girls having a crazy time and mail it to her thanking her for introducing you to the rest of your life.

BTW she IS fvcking other guys or she wouldn't be disrespecting you like that, I would put money on it. She knows you're a loser, what man would take a single mother, seriously. I live for threads like this, I can't believe the sheer amount of stupidity that passes for normal in today's world.

Haha dude i love your post... seriously man, been there done there.. been to many many raves in my time!!

Sensation white, trance energy, the lot..

But it doesn't mean ****t when you get to my age lol... but i hear what your saying and i fully take on what your saying brah
 

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I don't either. I think this poster's problem is his woman goes out 3-4 times a WEEK drinking without him. I don't know what she's trying to find in bars at 45 years old that she couldn't figure out by 30,35 or even 40. Chasing the devil?
I read that she used to go out 3-4 times a week before she met him, but now she hardly ever goes to these places.

OP...my thread might help out http://www.sosuave.net/forum/index.php?threads/girlfriend-went-clubbing.223728/
I was fine at the beginning of that thread, but then..got myself all wound up.
Now & then if my bird goes out, lets say three or four times a year..i don't think it would bother me. If she was going out, lets say once a fortnight...then we have a problem


How does she know you dont like her going to clubs bars??
 
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