"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Not having sex with her...

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you should have sex with her as soon as you can. To not do so is insulting to her as a woman, she may even up over analyzing that you are gay to protect her own ego. If you continue to not have sex with her I am quite sure she will dump you
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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joeylee....

im a bit confused.. do you WANT to have sex with her?
 

Joeylee

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okay she spent the night last night... and we didn't have sex. She didn't really ask for it, and I didn't push her to, so we had some oral and I came on her face. I've already been there done that... she actually asked me how many women I've been with and I told her you do not ask a man my age that question, so she didn't push for an answer. I'm not looking to have sex with just anyone anymore, I'm wayyyyy past that. I'm 37. But you know what guys? She's intrigued, I get texts from her all the time, and personally I don't think she's getting banged by anyone. This really is a post for the mature man dealing with a younger women. I don't want to come off as some old perv.
 
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