how do you, not get whipped
Don't see her to often. Maybe two, three time a week. Keep busy with other activities, things you like to do when you're not with her. Date more than one girl. Remember she's not the only girl in the world or the only one that will play with your pecker. Girls are a dime a dozen.
how close is too close ? how close is not close enough ?
Depends on the situation and the girl.
want to where the pants and have the controol.
You need to lead the relationship if you want to control it.
1. Don't call to often, let her call you.
2. End conversatons first, especially if they're going good.
3. Don't ask the infamous question, 'what do you want to do'. Make the decision and lead.
4. Don't go off expressing your feelings for her to fast, let her wonder how you're feeling (this builds mystery which equals attraction).
There is a bunch of other tips on this site and others. Read around.
