"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Not getting a response while we were just talking!?

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PlayCold

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I met this great girl a while ago and I am getting a bit irritated....


Let me explain:

I called her to ask if she wanted to have a drink. She didn't pick up the phone and her voicemail was turned off. So the next day I texted her saying that I called her yesterday that I wanted to have a drink on Wednesday around 4 pm.

Got a message back that she was working and couldn't pick up the phone. She said that she had to work Wednesday so that was no option so she asked if I could go on another day.

I texted her back asking if Saturday around 5pm could work out for her. If not she should let me know when she had some time, then I would check my agenda if that worked for me.


I still haven't heard anything from her.....

Why do women keep doing this? What is the *** damn point? She has responded earlier! At least say something back!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ease

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You are too eager. You have to play it cold.
 
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In Holland, chicks run away like they are being chased by the devil if you act like that. Why are you trying to set up a date again and again and why did you feel the need to tell her that you called her earlier. If she's too busy, then too bad for her. Ask another girl.
 
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I gave her a lot of time to respond in the earlier conversations, I have no need to rush! But it's just ridiculous that your having a conversation and she just "disappears".
 
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