Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Not For the Weak

XY.

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Recently i have been getting tired of having sex with the same three girls. I dropped them all at once by going ghost and adding their number to the blacklist app.

Typically, this happens every three or four months unless i see something unusual in them that makes me stretch it out to five.

I'm not sure of how many of you other guys have the balls to do this and i know for a fact that i have caused a fair amount of emotional wreckage in my wanton ways, but i'm not interested in looking through my rear view mirrors; however, months down the road i reappear and pretend like nothing has happened. This leads to easy sex and most of the time they are so glad to hear from me that i don't even get badgered with questions.

If this rubs any of you the wrong way then Don't waste any of your posts telling me that it's wrong, because i probably won't even read it; however, if any of you have ever dropped all of your plates at the same time by pulling a Houdini or any other method of severing ties then do tell because i enjoy an interesting read.


Basically, what is your preferred method of severing ties once you are bored with your girls?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I speak for myself here, but I found this site by typing in google 'How to get my

girlfriend back.' I don't exactly have three girls I'm banging I could drop at will

and come waltzing back into their life three months from now.
 

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I do work the same way as this. Not like clockwork - or on a time scedule, but if I get bored with one, then im usually bored with the other(s).

So, yeah. Drop all plates and reset the game.

Its a good way to get a couple weeks to yourself and get your head straight too, I find.


Method: Stop calling. Dont bother replying to texts or answering calls.

Ghost is really the only way to do it. I can't stand the teary goodbyes and the begging and "what did I do wrong" crap. Call me callous if you will - but I just dont have the patience to deal with the emotional crap.:D
 

foreverAFC

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im about to **** a couch
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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XY.

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Purefilth said:
I do work the same way as this. Not like clockwork - or on a time scedule, but if I get bored with one, then im usually bored with the other(s).

So, yeah. Drop all plates and reset the game.

Its a good way to get a couple weeks to yourself and get your head straight too, I find.


Method: Stop calling. Dont bother replying to texts or answering calls.

Ghost is really the only way to do it. I can't stand the teary goodbyes and the begging and "what did I do wrong" crap. Call me callous if you will - but I just dont have the patience to deal with the emotional crap.:D
Lol I feel you.

It lowers her expectations down and makes it easier to bed her should you ever choose to go back
 

zinc4

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XY. said:
Recently i have been getting tired of having sex with the same three girls. I dropped them all at once by going ghost and adding their number to the blacklist app.

Typically, this happens every three or four months unless i see something unusual in them that makes me stretch it out to five.

I'm not sure of how many of you other guys have the balls to do this and i know for a fact that i have caused a fair amount of emotional wreckage in my wanton ways, but i'm not interested in looking through my rear view mirrors; however, months down the road i reappear and pretend like nothing has happened. This leads to easy sex and most of the time they are so glad to hear from me that i don't even get badgered with questions.

If this rubs any of you the wrong way then Don't waste any of your posts telling me that it's wrong, because i probably won't even read it; however, if any of you have ever dropped all of your plates at the same time by pulling a Houdini or any other method of severing ties then do tell because i enjoy an interesting read.


Basically, what is your preferred method of severing ties once you are bored with your girls?
I do basically the same...don't have the heart to go ghost all at once though...usually gradually go ghost after 2 or 3 nice messages hinting i am finished and pulling away...i never make it 3 months though...my interest fades after 2 at most usually and some of them i will come back months later and bang them one more time and go ghost....yeah it's probably bad...but oh well...
 

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Wow that takes some serious balls or complete lack of interest. I've given it some thought before but don't have the guts to drop all chicks I'm dating at the same time, even when I'm not particularly interested in any of them.

It would definitely be interesting though. Have 3 medium-term relps and just drop them all at once. I don't think I could do it, frankly.

When I do dump a chick these days I usually just give her some song and dance about "being too busy with work" and after cancelling a few dates with that excuse she gets the picture and finds somebody else. Yeah it's pretty lame but what can I say...
 
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