I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
True! I haven't had sex for a week nor masturbated within that time and I feel like a dog in heat right now!!!TyTe`EyEs said:
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Not necessarely. I jerk it alot and I **** alot and I still walk through life with a boner.TyTe`EyEs said:
Well that's good for you he's talking about SEX DRIVE not if he gets a boner or not. Everyguy can get boner if he has to but having a huge SEX DRIVE is caused by lack of testostrone from masterbating too much. So listen to the advice of not masterbating for a few weeks and stop watching porn too. I used to get a boner seeing a HB8+ with jeans and shirt on now I actually have to get a little more so I'm thinking of not watching porn for few months.Phoenix_of_the_ashes said:
I must have a different kind of **** than you do, for me having a boner is closely related to being sexually aroused, except in the morning when I have to piss.PeterNorthisawesome said:
How are u gonna grind with a chick in a club? you gotta learn to control your boner. You can be sexually arosed without having a boner, getting horny is different though if you get horny you get a boner. Sexually arosed and horny is different I think well still the bottom line of increasing sexual arosal is not touchin yourself too much. If you aren't horny by looking at a chick it means your gay.Phoenix_of_the_ashes said:
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
PeterNorthisawesome said:
I dont go to clubs.
