"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Is it normal for a time when I guy doesn't get as horny? I mean I masturbate quite often and now when I see hb's and porn I don't get as horny as usual. In fact, I felt pretty cool down.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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TyTe`EyEs

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Having a low sex drive is a by-product of masturbation. Simply stop rubbing 'em out and you'll be fine.
 

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TyTe`EyEs said:
Having a low sex drive is a by-product of masturbation. Simply stop rubbing 'em out and you'll be fine.
True! I haven't had sex for a week nor masturbated within that time and I feel like a dog in heat right now!!!

Also beware of porn. That can also lower your sex drive simply by trivialising sex. I'm guessing there was a time when you'd get turned on by a woman in a tight top or short skirt, but after watching porn on a regular basis it takes a lot more to get you going.

Try abstaining from porn and masturbation for a while and see how you get on.
 

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Jariel said:
True! I haven't had sex for a week nor masturbated within that time and I feel like a dog in heat right now!!!

Also beware of porn. That can also lower your sex drive simply by trivialising sex. I'm guessing there was a time when you'd get turned on by a woman in a tight top or short skirt, but after watching porn on a regular basis it takes a lot more to get you going.

Try abstaining from porn and masturbation for a while and see how you get on.
Good advice.

What you describe is normal, Rookie. When you arent able to get an erection then you should seek some medical advice.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Phoenix_of_the_ashes

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TyTe`EyEs said:
Having a low sex drive is a by-product of masturbation. Simply stop rubbing 'em out and you'll be fine.
Not necessarely. I jerk it alot and I **** alot and I still walk through life with a boner.

Check the following things:

Are you sleeping enough?

Are you eating enough?

Are you eating good?

How much refined sugar are you eating?

Are you doing sports?

Do you spend alot of time in physically passiv situations?
 
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Phoenix_of_the_ashes said:
Not necessarely. I jerk it alot and I **** alot and I still walk through life with a boner.

Check the following things:

Are you sleeping enough?

Are you eating enough?

Are you eating good?

How much refined sugar are you eating?

Are you doing sports?

Do you spend alot of time in physically passiv situations?
Well that's good for you he's talking about SEX DRIVE not if he gets a boner or not. Everyguy can get boner if he has to but having a huge SEX DRIVE is caused by lack of testostrone from masterbating too much. So listen to the advice of not masterbating for a few weeks and stop watching porn too. I used to get a boner seeing a HB8+ with jeans and shirt on now I actually have to get a little more so I'm thinking of not watching porn for few months.
 

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PeterNorthisawesome said:
Well that's good for you he's talking about SEX DRIVE not if he gets a boner or not. Everyguy can get boner if he has to but having a huge SEX DRIVE is caused by lack of testostrone from masterbating too much. So listen to the advice of not masterbating for a few weeks and stop watching porn too. I used to get a boner seeing a HB8+ with jeans and shirt on now I actually have to get a little more so I'm thinking of not watching porn for few months.
I must have a different kind of **** than you do, for me having a boner is closely related to being sexually aroused, except in the morning when I have to piss.
 
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Phoenix_of_the_ashes said:
I must have a different kind of **** than you do, for me having a boner is closely related to being sexually aroused, except in the morning when I have to piss.
How are u gonna grind with a chick in a club? you gotta learn to control your boner. You can be sexually arosed without having a boner, getting horny is different though if you get horny you get a boner. Sexually arosed and horny is different I think well still the bottom line of increasing sexual arosal is not touchin yourself too much. If you aren't horny by looking at a chick it means your gay.
 

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what about just watch and think about porn BUT not masturbate or do anything in action for few weeks. Thats still ok right?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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PeterNorthisawesome said:
How are u gonna grind with a chick in a club? you gotta learn to control your boner. You can be sexually arosed without having a boner, getting horny is different though if you get horny you get a boner. Sexually arosed and horny is different I think well still the bottom line of increasing sexual arosal is not touchin yourself too much. If you aren't horny by looking at a chick it means your gay.

In my expirience, if a girl feels that you're rockin' a woody, she gets even more into it.


And if I look at a fat b*tch with jiggly arms and a crater face, and my penis goes into hiding, does that mean I'm gay?
 
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