"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Not doing what you don't want to do

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How do you not listen to authority when you don't want to??

For instance:

My football trainer told me to take my hat off.

Honestly, I didn't want to take my hat off. Why the f*ck should I take my hat off if I didn't want to?

Eventually, I took it off, because he is the trainer and I am just a player.

How do you NOT do what you don't want to do?


Another example is that my mate lets his mother control him. He lets her make him to things he does want to do, or vice versa.
If he wants to go out sarging with me and my mates, his mother threatens to lock him out? WTF?

So, how do you NOT do what you don't want to do OR DO what you want to do, when a higher authority does not allow you to?
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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"Me"?????? Your post does not make any sense to me.
 
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styleman said:
"Me"?????? Your post does not make any sense to me.
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Sorry bout me accent there bud. heh heh

It is all fixed now for you!

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Come on, for the high school kids!

If they can get a girl to stand up to her domineering parents, man, those pants are going to slide off through thought alone!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Kintuz said:
Sorry bout me accent there bud. heh heh

It is all fixed now for you!

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You are not going to get anywhere in a job if you do not listen to your boss. The only option is to become the boss. What do you get out of wearing the hat? Nothing. Clearly, the rule is there to ensure the uniformity of the team. If one wants to do stupid things, which have no purpose, but rather a counter purpose, then they ought not to do it. If on the other hand, you have solid reason why you want to do something, it becomes much easier to do it, and put your foot down. Confidence comes from knowing that you are right, when you have no basis for a decision, how do you expect to go against an order with confidence?
 
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You are not going to get anywhere in a job if you do not listen to your boss. The only option is to become the boss. What do you get out of wearing the hat? Nothing. Clearly, the rule is there to ensure the uniformity of the team. If one wants to do stupid things, which have no purpose, but rather a counter purpose, then they ought not to do it. If on the other hand, you have solid reason why you want to do something, it becomes much easier to do it, and put your foot down. Confidence comes from knowing that you are right, when you have no basis for a decision, how do you expect to go against an order with confidence?
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Alright bud, Thanks for the advice that I was NOT looking for.

Why should I take off my hat if I don't want to? It was cold out as well. I shouldn't have to do things that I don't want to.


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it depends on when it is worth it.
would it be worth getting chewed out or something over wearing a hat?

pick your battles carefully and then stick to your guns.
 
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it depends on when it is worth it.
would it be worth getting chewed out or something over wearing a hat?

pick your battles carefully and then stick to your guns.
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Why would you let anyone ever make you do something that you don't want to do? OR Vice versa?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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because sometimes you have to compromise small things, like when to wear a hat and when not to or how to dress to go to school due to a dress code.

the little things we have to learn to let go because its the big things that really matter
 
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First you can't wear the hat. Next, you'll have to carry the balls. Pretty soon, you'll be the team b!tch and the beta male that gets no play.


Anyways, lets not stick to these examples. They were just that. Examples.

I want to know How do I not do things that I don't want to do, when told to do so by higher authority. OR vice versa.

Thank You
 
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First you can't wear the hat. Next, you'll have to carry the balls. Pretty soon, you'll be the team b!tch and the beta male that gets no play.


Anyways, lets not stick to these examples. They were just that. Examples.

I want to know How do I not do things that I don't want to do, when told to do so by higher authority. OR vice versa.

Thank You
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Simple really. Just don't do it. Keep on wearing that hat. Just be prepared to face the consequences.

If you don't want to face the consequences of being disobedient, then explain yourself to the authorities. Tell them the reasons why you don't want to do those things. It better be good though, otherwise you'll just come across as being a stubborn dumb fvck.
 
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Ok, maybe the hat example wasn't so great.

What if my trainer wanted me to carry the balls back inside?
Only the beta males do this type of labor. Only the AFCs are the beta (team b!tch).

If my trainer told me to do so, how would I go about NOT doing it?
 
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