"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Not Clear? & Do's and Dont's for Day 2

SyncBoss

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I've wanted this HB7 (a bit of a backtrack, we had the same class last year, but it wasn't till recently that we became more acquainted), for quite some time and it wasn't till today that I decided to take action.

I texted her, and after chatting for a bit I decided it was time to go for the day 2:

Me: "Lol no problem. What are you doing tomorrow (besides robbing a bank)?" (btw I used a 'Were robbing the bank tomorrow' Opener)
Her: "I don't know yet I should probably work on my ISSP work for O'Connor, he's gonna kill me, you?"
Me: "What ISSP are you taking? Im gonna try & get out of class by setting up the auditorium xD! Well if you arent doing anything after school we should go to Froyo"
Her: "Colonial New Haven lol and I can't tomorrow but maybe another day"
Me: "That's fine, this just means I'll have to get you there on a busier day like Friday, when it is certain you'll have to parallel park. Why'd you choose that?" (she had confessed to me earlier that she sucked at parallel parking, I was poking some fun at her)
Her: "That's fine lol practice makes perfect and I just needed a history credit it was his idea"
Me: (here I felt the need to reiterate the fact that we would go this Friday, just in case my last text wasn't too broad) "You say that now, but I don't want to hear any complaining Friday when you can't do it properly. what kind of work are you getting?"

It seems unclear if she is fine w/ the day 2 but idk. You guys give your judgement. Also, I'm gonna verify it Wednesday or Thursday just to make sure.

If this is a day 2, I need help because I've never been on a date before (let alone being on one while using PUA strategies). What are some Do's and Dont's for a day 2. (btw I'm not going for the f-close, so don't give suggestions that would lead to that, at least for now.)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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LearningSlowly

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Meh. Pretty soft sell on this one. Looks like she doesn't want to go with you, she'll find another excuse.

Instead of using openers for texts and being passive, be direct and make her sure that you're interested. Higher risk, higher reward.
 
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