this is the story of life fellas........you must remember attraction isnt a choice.........people will either like you or they wont ....its simple really.
walk down the street and look at the ladys there will be girls and ladys who have better qualitys than some hb8......the problem is you just dont see it.
its about a balance.........i have great qaulitys in lots of ways ....i have self respect for a start , i work hard , i have no debts , iv just bought a house , i am reliable , ........all these are great things to have under your belt........but that doesnt mean all the hot babes will fall at your feet...........it doesnt work that way.
this is why its so important not to bother with girls who have boyfriends full stop..........tell them once well if it doesnt work out give me a call then move on........messing with chicks with bfs is going to be so much drama its unreal..........not worth my time ......and shouldnt be worth yours either.
i have had lots of chicks who were head over heals about me ......i and have been uninterested totally.........wouldnt even want to bang them because there was nothing there .
so attraction isnt a choice trust me.......when a girl likes you she will let you know ........one day you may just be surprized how it happends.
wasting your time running after all these hot babes and treating them like they are some fvckin movie star is whats causing them all to have this entitlement attitude that you will all be encountering...........
if all men made women work harder for there attention then things would soon go back to how things were not too long ago....
good luck guys