feminine shaming tactics dont work round here,maybe you are just not Alpha enough for most of them.
hope youre having s*x with these women, whilst they are rinsing you of non sexual attention & social proof
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.