not approaching

[jonny97]

hey guys , in 20s but never seem approach constantly caring too much on not getting rejected and whether the girl likes me back. also surrounding if theres too many people around I would 100% not approach as its uncomfortable what strangers think of me . If an attractive girl is around me i get excited and if she flirting I would flirt back but I would never go up and introduce myself . Or if I did it i need take a long time such as seeing the girl in a setting like at work it would take 5 months to approach and by then they say I have a boyfriend . I have never approached more than 5 girls in a week in my life and constantly ruining opportunities that may or may not of worked out but would never known because never took chance . Any dudes got advice for this dude who can't get over anxiety and being creepy . thanks

 

[Yorkex]

Personally used to be like you.
Girls generally throw their selves at me throughout school and work environment that's when I make a move.

I changed it up a little bit his year though.

1) Go to less crowded places and approach.
2) I'm at a stage now that If I do approach , I can talk to them as humans and just walk off without asking for anything. Unless they are really hot ..

 

[mangotot]

Didn't some ice hocky dude called Wayne Gretsky say 'I miss every shot I fail to take'?

The only person missing out is you and no one else. The joke is on you pal!