Not answering the phone

[funnydude]

Hey guys, I've read everything I can get my hands on about seducing women and found a lot of things that really work. But there is one thing I just don't handle well and cannot find any material is how to handle it when a girl doesn't answer her phone in times when she's obviously available. Every time you see a girl she has her phone and is normally texting every second you give her a chance. You know she has her phone on her, and most of the time you know she's not on another date or extremely busy. Now I know sometimes this means they just aren't interested, but sometimes it's just the opposite.

How do my fellow DJs handle this kind of disrespect? How do you turn it around on her and get her pursuing you again?

 

[Incog]

Just don't call or text her anymore, and if she tries to call/text you, don't answer/respond.

Maybe the next time after that if she calls you can pick up. She'll know how it feels!

 

[edmond]

How do my fellow DJs handle this kind of disrespect? How do you turn it around on her and get her pursuing you again?[/QUOTE]
Why would you want to talk to someone who does NOT want to talk to you?
Do not waste anymore time on her, just move on and live your own life, go to the gym, cycle, swim, etc.....

 

[amoka]

I agree with what others have suggested. Do not call her again. Period. If she calls, do not pick-up. I'm telling you from experience. I called this girl and she refused to pick up. I refused to leave message. She called back 3 days later. And guess what? That's right I did not pick up. She called again, the following day. Again, I did not pick up. She managed to call me on different phone; and I picked up. I told her I was busy and will call her back later. ( I was busy at that time) But forgot to call her back. I called her three days later, she picked up. Fool.

 

[frisco]

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[atsialides]

missed calls

As a rule of thumb, never try to call her a second time the same day she gave you a missed call.

If she doesn't call you back the same day, she maybe do it the next day.. you never know. Sometimes this way she is testing to see if you are a stalker.

But even if she doesn't call you at all, no big deal. Try calling her a couple of days later. If you get another missed call there, give her a last chance. What I do is text her immediately: "Call me asap. You've got something really important to confess". Play with her ego and curiosity. I sometimes get a call within some seconds! You'd better prepare something really interesting to tell her.

Angelo

 

[Blusher]

But there is one thing I just don't handle well and cannot find any material is how to handle it when a girl doesn't answer her phone in times when she's obviously available.

There's nothing to handle. Just leave a message and delete the number from your phone. If she's interested she'll call back if she's not then why would you want to hang out with someone who doesn't want to anayway.

Dude, a lot of it is just common sense.

 

[rsxtreme]

its kind of like beating a dead horse with a stick. im in the same situation right now as well.

 

[ryannath]

I've never done this, but a heard a guy say one time that he called a girl 2 times, but not in the same day, and she didn't pick up, so he called a few days later and left a message and said, "something must be up since you won't pick up, so if you don't call me back this time, this will be the last phone call I make you." And, the girl called back a few mins later wanting to go out.

 

[SeldomSeen]

yeah Ive done that before. Gave her an ultimatum to answer if she didnt then lets just forget we met. 10 minutes later ring, ring... Funny how a response like that gets people to reply sometimes.

 

[BrokenLeftWing]

try once, and then if she doesnt get back to you in a timely manner. move on and send her a pix message of another girl, and say it was by mistake, you was sending it to your friend. lol. let her think about that one for awhile.

 

[joseph_went_south]

Dude, every single phone on the planet has caller id. When you keep calling a woman who obviously doesn't want to talk to you, she gets the message loud and clear: CREEP!

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

...Now I know sometimes this means they just aren't interested, but sometimes it's just the opposite....

How do you know when it is the opposite?

 

[atsialides]

experiment - nothing to lose!

Dude, every single phone on the planet has caller id. When you keep calling a woman who obviously doesn't want to talk to you, she gets the message loud and clear: CREEP!

I used to see it the way you say so, but I tried to experiment since there was nothing to lose. It did work the first time, so I do the same thing every time, but with some days brake between the 2 or 3 chances I'm giving her (but never more). It sometimes works, so there is no standard formula. You maybe catch her in a good mood

Angelo

 

[insidious]

Is there even a correct answer to this BS?

Go w/ your instincts. If your instincts continually fail, time to fine-tune your approach.




What I've found:
First missed call....leave it.

Call ONE day later. Another missed call?

Ciao baby. You missed something good called ME.