"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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At least every other day, we see a new "which movies make a don juan"-kinda thread. Now, I'm not saying this is bad, but I just wanted everybody to spend a couple of minutes thinking about this, since I myself have noticed that maybe I should stop connecting movies and don juaning.

I don't watch a lot of TV, but I often buy some DVDs so I know a bit about films. What are the movies usually suggested to us aspiring Don Juans? A few common ones could certainly be:

- Fight Club (Brad Pitt)
- James Bond saga (Sean Connery, Pierce Brosnan)
- Star Wars (Harrison Ford)
- Hitch (Will Smith)
- Maial College (the main character, I don't know his name)

And I could mention a lot of others, but this is not the point.

When I see one of these movies, where the main character (or someone else) looks very cool (it doesn't matter at all if he's a Don Juan netiher if he does or does not pull hot chicks), I can't help but pass the following days trying to mirror him.
To make it clear that it has nothing to do with pulling chicks, I'll list some of the characters I've mirrored more frequently so far:

- Brad Pitt in Fight Club
- Malcolm McDowell is A Clockwork Orange
- Stiffler in American Pie
- The main character in The Pool
- That funny shady guy in The Hole


What does this lead me to? I think I have an incongruent persona, since I end up mirroring and mixing 5 completely different guys, thus leading me to INCONGRUENCY. I'm sure people can catch me up on this although nobody says anything about it.

Or maybe is it a good thing to model yourself around these people? I don't think so, but I'd like to know some ideas of yours.

Has anybody else experienced this?
I'd like everybody to express his opinions in here and let us know what he thinks about all this.
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I think everyone does this. People are easily influenced by things they see and hear.

Ive been moved by many movies and its shown in my everyday persona. Theres nothing wrong with that its only natural. Who wouldnt want to mirror brad pitt in fightclub? I mean he is free in every way we're not, right?

btw whats wrong with incongruency? if we were perfectly congruent we'd be some damned cyborgs (which would be cool).
 
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Originally posted by Julian
I think everyone does this. People are easily influenced by things they see and hear.

Ive been moved by many movies and its shown in my everyday persona. Theres nothing wrong with that its only natural. Who wouldnt want to mirror brad pitt in fightclub? I mean he is free in every way we're not, right?

btw whats wrong with incongruency? if we were perfectly congruent we'd be some damned cyborgs (which would be cool).
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you may be right, but somebody who one day acts like tyler durden and the next day mirrors Stiffler is not a cool guy... he's ridicolous
 
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you may be right, but somebody who one day acts like tyler durden and the next day mirrors Stiffler is not a cool guy... he's ridicolous

ha-ha, that's funny.

I like Brad Pitt and George Clooney in Oceans Eleven and Twelve.
Their Alpha status jumps out at you without them saying a single word.
 
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Originally posted by Jay-X
At least every other day, we see a new "which movies make a don juan"-kinda thread.
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Can't we discuss this on one of THOSE threads?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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