Not another delusional playing hard to get thread.

[Famishedrj3]

I shop at publix often and there is this hb9 who works in the vacinity. Whenever I'm in the store she is always smiling at me. So I see her stocking in a aisle, I walk up to her.

Me: you smile at me as if you have something to tell me
Her: (without looking at me and a huge smile on her face) I just like to smile.
Me: (I take it as a lie, when a girl doesn't look at you when she says something it's usually a lie) lol touché, I'm rj and you are?
Her: blank
Me: you don't look so happy working here 
Her: yea, I'm going to college for ( some medical **** i forget) part-time job blah blah
Me: ah I go to the same school, but my major is criminal justice. which is kind of ironic being that you look like such as a badass.
Her: lol, whatever no I'm not.
(playful banter continues, I then ask for her phone number)
Her: I don't have a phone
Me: your so lying
Her: no I swear, you see where I work, my car payments take over my life.
Me: what, do you drive a bmw?
Her: a Mazda
Me: ah much better than my car, its a Buick lol
Me: I should give you my phone number
Her: go for it
Me: buuut your not going to call though
Her: she laughs
Me: have lunch with me.
Her: yes!
Me: ummm 
Her: tomorrow at the school, building 14 cafeteria
Me: umm time
Her: 10:00
Me: cool, hey what's my name ( **** test on my end)
Her: RJ!! ( oh the glee on her face)
Me: I'll see you blank.
 
Showed up at the school cafeteria but its so fckin huge I can't find her, I give up and leave. Couple days later I go to publix to buy some **** with my sister. We go in some line and the girl is in another line. My sister goes we should go in that line that girl is looking at you, like omg. So I say **** it, we go in her line. 

Me: did you stand me up
Her: nooo I was there.
Me: oh, I'll be back

I get flustered being that the bag girl and my sister were eyeballing me so hard, I told her I'll be back.

I come back
Me: what's up, do I have to call here everyday to find blank.
Her: lol call everyday
Me: nah I'm playin, can't ever get in contact with you though.
Her: she says something - I cut her off
Me: your making this really hard for me
Her: (she looks at me and smiles kinda like her panties got wet, and says I'll see you around.)
Me: alright
So I turn around and walk away, never to come back again, days later

 my brother comes to me and says hey bro do you know some hot chick in publix? I was walkin with two girls, and she goes hey rj, I turned and said what's up, then she got squinty eyed and this flushed look on her  face like wrong person. 

Should I have been persistent? Or just let that ***** go?
Ah man I wanted to **** her, kind of annoys me, when girls make me have patience. I think I miss out on opportunities when I dismiss some girls.
 

 

[Chamber36]

I wouldn't invest in her anymore.

We, as men, have a drive to continually pursue certain women. Sometimes when girls receive attention from a man they've rejected, it incredulously strokes their ego.

Even if you've been rejected and you continue to disqualify yourself in the future, be genuine and wish her all the best, she'll still take that as some kind of AFC last ditch effort. At least I've noticed that.

For example, one time, I'd seen an HB10, asked for her number, she enthusiastically agrees, but wants to bring her friend. So I never call her. I run into her at a party some months later and I make friendly small-talk. Then later she's with this dude and won't stop looking at me. She was giving me receptive body language and lookin at me over the dude's shoulder, and when I looked back at her a big giant grin would appear on her face. She seemed to be flattered that I turned to look at her. Maybe she thought I was jealous of the dude. I was just looking at her because she was grinning funny. So at the end of the night I scope her out, she'd be smiling at me, but once I change my body language to indicate that I want to approach, she gives me the cold shoulder.

This is low-key attention whoring at it's finest.

My advice is: don't give her the satisfaction of letting her think that you're still interested.

 

[Famishedrj3]

Thanks bro, your advice sounds on key

 

[nismo-4]

Really listen to Chamber!

Girls know so many ways to be attention wh0res.

If a woman rejects you, accept it and move on.

 

[Griever114]

Really listen to Chamber!

Girls know so many ways to be attention wh0res.

If a woman rejects you, accept it and move on.

This, but i wouldnt go so far as to say "attention wh0re." It doesnt make it anu better or worse than the prefix.. A wh0re is a wh0re no matter the prefix. Its like saying i stepped in dog $h!t when you really can just say:

"I stepped in sh1t."