"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

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The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Hi!

There is this girl who works at the supermarket. She is at backery&bread and there is no other way to get close to her.

How to get this girls number?

There are always people in the line and everything is going fast. And she is not serving alone.

Any ideas?

thanks!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'd say no you can't go for # at that place, because she could get in trouble. You gotta be considerate to ladies. But there are always exceptions, and perhaps you could and get away with it. Up to your judgement.


What you can do is flirt with her and if signs are right ask what time she finishes. If she answers the time you can be there at that time, and then you can n closer with her, WHICH I don't recommend. N close and then escalate to after work date immidiately, they get flattered when you take it just a lil too far, a date might not be too far, but then you can smell her hair, ask if she wants to kiss you, and if those go well ask if she wants to watch a funny movie at your place. They get flattered when you take just one step further, it tells them you're into them. To take her for date tell her you're going to this place and if she wants to tag along with you, so you can see if she's qualified to be with you. (don't go would you like to go out on a date with me)

When you flirt with girl, you gotta let her know you're into her. Ask her if she's single (not have bf, "Are you single?"). She say yes I'd question her response, "Are you reaalllly single???" Then hmmm, what time you finish your work?



If on your question what time she finishes she respons with anything but time, she don't want to meet you, or is not compfortable telling you at that place. Act like it don't affect you, but don't flirt with her further, take your bread and leave. You could try again next time, after you about to disconnect with her ask what time she finishes. No answer, forget it man.


Oh, accuse her of being into you as soon as she meet you after work for your n close. From that point on keep accusing her. It's flirting.
 

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djSlvt said:
I'd say no you can't go for # at that place, because she could get in trouble. You gotta be considerate to ladies. But there are always exceptions, and perhaps you could and get away with it. Up to your judgement.
I really don't understand this. Why would she get in trouble?

Actually, it's much easier to approach a girl who works somewhere, because you already have your opener determined for you (which is probably the hardest part). You simply approach her about the product and start escalating from there. Before you walk away you want to have asked for her number.
 

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What I'm thinking is a long line and here girl has to stop doing her job and write you her number. A) She has to give you number in front of all those people (most of which are AFC fvcks to begin with), and B) she's not doing her jeb..

As I said that's IMO. That means In My Opinion.
 

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Most places aren't THAT busy... and i'm sure her bosses would be understanding enough if she took, what, 10 seconds to write her number down...

If you're uncomfortable asking in front of a line of other people, use a note. A note is a bit wussyish, but it's excusable in a line, I think. Just write on the note, "I didn't want to ask this in front of all these people..." of course, you would most likely make a big impression confidence-wise if you asked in front of everyone, and in a loud voice too. Whether u have the guts to do that is another thing.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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