Not always good advice

[NatureGuy]

JustDoItAlways:
She married him in her twenties, and accepted him because it was what she was used to from her somewhat abusive parents and because her drive for having children was so overwhelming and this guy could support her. She realizes she made a mistake, but she's working on getting a career and dumping him. It takes time to do this, but she's also afraid of being independent.

 

[drZaius09]

Originally posted by NatureGuy
I got suckered into the negative
attitude toward women conveyed in this
site, made a decision based on that,
and may have lost her.

This sounds like trouble to me; I mean, I'm sure she was the only possible woman who could ever be compatible with you. Might as well give up now. You'll never find another girl among the three billion other ones left on the planet. I guess you could say that you blew your only chance for companionship. Time to go cry in your soup now. Poor lovelorn NatureGuy.

 

[NatureGuy]

 

[NatureGuy]

drZaius09: Fact is, I've know this
women since she was a girl. It's
hard to recreate history and association like that in a single lifetime. If you're
in your twenties, maybe.

 

[drZaius09]

Fact is, there's no reason for you to be reacting like this over an emotionally damaged, unstable, and MARRIED woman. She is not worth your time anymore. I don't care how old you are. GO FIND ANOTHER ONE. Believe me, there are plenty more emotionally damaged, unstable, and married women just yearning for the chance to meet you and f*ck up your life.

 

[lynx]

I think you should stay away from married chicks, especially one with an abusive husband (that should have been a RED FLAG). Get some girl with less baggage.

 

[NatureGuy]

Lynx and DrZaius:

I hear you.

 

[NatureGuy]

In case anyone is interested: my
challenge worked! After 8 days,
she called back, had done what I asked
and is actually seeing the lawyer again
next week. Things have improved
between us.