not all vampires suck blood

[monster squad]

This shlt's been driving me crazy the last few weeks. Everything was almost perfect with this chick. I mean, she had a kid, and there was a little drama over me having some history with a friend of hers, but she seemed to have it together and was obssessed with me. Always calling, always wanting me over, constantly complimenting me, saying how "cute" I was every 10 seconds, ect...

All of the sudden I get cut off. No explainations. Maybe we didn't have the greatest time the last day I saw her, but it was nothing drastic. I only got a hold of her once on the phone, and for the first time she didn't mention having me over. She didn't mention needing space or anything. Just chit-chat, and an "I"ll give you a call sometime.".

Of course this drove me nuts, and I spent all this time pondering what could have happened (I gotta remind myself to never do that again). It could have been a million things, but friday night things became clearer.

I was chilling out at the bar with some friends (a few of hers), and she was apparently at a bar a block away. They went through a cell phone battle trying to get each other to go to change bars, but nobody budged. It was decided earlier that we'd go over there eventually, but no hurry. By the time we did get there, she was gone. I began wondering if one of her friends might have told her I was around and she took off, or if she even knew at all. I asked her best friend what was up, and she flat out told me that it would be in my best interest to move on.

She went on to explain that this girl really likes me, thinks I'm "hot" (she needs glasses), tells her friends how good a fvck I am..., but she's scared shltless of being in a relationship. It turns out the guy she was with before (6 years, a kid together) was an utter douchebag to her. A control-freak, and he wouldn't let her out of his sight. She only saw her own best friend about 5 times in 6 years. She couldn't see her family, she couldn't go out with her friends. If she did manage to get away from the guy, he'd follow her around, stalking her. He still stalks her. They've only been broken up for 5 months, and she's far from over it. She once told me I was the first guy she felt she could trust since then, but I guess I must have done something to remind her of him.

I tried getting a hold of her the next day, if only to talk, but she never answered. I sent her a text to get back to me, she never did. I deleted her phone numbers last night. I wanted to show her that her fear is causing her to be unfair to herself, and me, but I can't torture myself over her. It's a shame.

 

[Desdinova]

In other words, she was damaged goods. At any sign of a physically or emotionally battered woman, it's best to move on to something different. Damaged women will cause a lot of frustration.

 

[DJDamage]

Don't listen to her friends, they are on her side and will make out any kind of Bullsh1t story to cover her tracks.

A woman will not let go of a good thing, no matter how scared she is. There is a reason for what she did.

I believe you were replaced. She found another dude who excited her more and instead of confronting you about it and watching you get p1ssed, she decided to avoid you entirely so you will get the hint.

Don't try to find out the reason why. Even if this woman calls you today to appologize it should mean nothing to you. She disrespect you and a DJ doesn't put up with disrespect.

DjDamage

 

[Warlord]

From this point on, just completely ignore her. If she invites you, tries to talk to you, ignore her. Follow this rule. You don't need this drama or a dumb girl on your back.

 

[monster squad]

I thought about that. Her one friend (the one who told me about all this) did go over there to see her for a few minutes and came back. Then she was gone when we all went over there. How convenient.

I just wasn't entirely sure though, since I had kinda figured she was a wrecked girl from the beginning.

Then again, another one of her friends (the one I used to mess around with), kinda warned me about her "sleeping around with guys at the drop of a hat", and saying I could do better, ect... I chalked that up to her being jealous though.

It could go either way, but it really doesn't matter anymore. I don't want anything more to do with her. There are so many other girls pursuing me that I feel kinda stupid for getting all wrapped up in her.

Lesson learned.

 

[KingRich]

Same sh!t

Dude,

I had this exact same situation with a chick who was really sketchy...damaged goods as she was with some dude for 8 years and came on super strong to me....

I fvcked her cross-eyed in every room of both of our apartments (including the balconies)..... Then our last night together she started acting distant.....then gone! Completly vanished and wouldn't respond to a voice mail or even an e-mail for that matter...

It drove me nuts to trying to figure out what got her panties in a wad, but I still have no idea what the fvck happened to her. I could tell from the time I met her though that this broad was a couple eye-liners short of a full make-up kit. Don't beat yourself up on this, you'll probably never no what the fvck is up in her messed up head. (She probably won't either for that matter)

You can throw logic out the window with this one....the only way to hit it again is to make sure she sees you with hotter tail. :woo: Either way, she's certainly not worth agonizing over or worth any of your serious time.....

Sucks to lose the bump buddy though doesn't it?

Rich

 

[Tha Realnezz]

If a woman choses you then she wouldn't play games this far along.


Women are flip-floppy it's better to develop a tough-skin emotionally untill you find a woman you can trust.