Not All DJ's Have Sex

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

BlackJackal

Master Don Juan

Jul 15, 2007

Jay Jay said:
A DJ is not a PUA.

To use the mountain climbing analogy: you could make it near the top but don't have time to finish because you have something else you want to achieve, you've been to the top of mountains and you can come back if you like. So you turn around and go back because climbing this mountain will take you precious time from achieving an other goal.

JJ

Then why waste time climbing the mountain just to figure out halfway up that he do something else? Why waste time with a woman you dont plan on fvckin anyway? Why not just do the other thing from the jump?

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.