"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Not All AlphaMales Are PUA's

PigAdlemPimp

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I have come to the conclusion that a small percentage of AlphaMales are AFC's who don't attract many hot babes.
There is a difference between being an AlphaMale amongst the other dudes and being one that frequently seduces hot babes.
In a small number of cases a dude can be the Leader Of The Pack so to speak amongst the other dudes yet not have any real success in pulling the hot babes.
The same can be said about some bad ass tough dudes who can stand up to anyone and fight them but can't get many of the hot babes into his bed.
Do you know any of these types of AlphaMales who have much more respect from the other dudes than you do, but whom you can out DJ when it comes to picking up the hottest girls.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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L777

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I think its unlikely for most Alphamales to be PUAs because, as Alpha males they probably had it quite easy with women from a young age so didn't need to learn seduction. This is where non-alpha PUAs (in terms of gentics) have the advantage, because they have the knowledge to become better than the Alpha males, in theory.
 

GloriouslyInsane

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Depends PigAdlemPimp, being the "leader of a pack" of nerds isn't much but being the captain of your schools [some sport here] team is kinda different..
If we take for example animals..from where the whole alpha thing originated i presume the alpha male will have that respect but actually go and fvck the females not just stand around feeling macho_Of course the simple "go and ****" is alot more complex nowadays..point is he would do it without hesitation.
 

Call_Me_Daddy

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L777 said:
This is where non-alpha PUAs (in terms of gentics) have the advantage, because they have the knowledge to become better than the Alpha males, in theory.
What a crock of ****. You're analyzing ths way too much.
So much, that what you write doesn't even make a shred of sense.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Not all alpha males are leaders of entire countries.
 

L777

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Call_Me_Daddy said:
What a crock of ****. You're analyzing ths way too much.
So much, that what you write doesn't even make a shred of sense.
It really does mate, read it over again and try and let it sink in...:rolleyes:
 

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About the only time this would be true is if the alpha male is very athletic and sociable but has some serious handicap when it comes specifically to girls. He could have a phobia of women, or he might just say really dumb things every now and then that turn women off, or he might be incredibly ugly or something.

Nonetheless, these handicaps would have to be very severe to significantly counteract women's attraction to his testosterone-filled life.
 
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