"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Not All AlphaMales Are PUA's

PigAdlemPimp

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I have come to the conclusion that a small percentage of AlphaMales are AFC's who don't attract many hot babes.
There is a difference between being an AlphaMale amongst the other dudes and being one that frequently seduces hot babes.
In a small number of cases a dude can be the Leader Of The Pack so to speak amongst the other dudes yet not have any real success in pulling the hot babes.
The same can be said about some bad ass tough dudes who can stand up to anyone and fight them but can't get many of the hot babes into his bed.
Do you know any of these types of AlphaMales who have much more respect from the other dudes than you do, but whom you can out DJ when it comes to picking up the hottest girls.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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L777

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I think its unlikely for most Alphamales to be PUAs because, as Alpha males they probably had it quite easy with women from a young age so didn't need to learn seduction. This is where non-alpha PUAs (in terms of gentics) have the advantage, because they have the knowledge to become better than the Alpha males, in theory.
 

GloriouslyInsane

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Depends PigAdlemPimp, being the "leader of a pack" of nerds isn't much but being the captain of your schools [some sport here] team is kinda different..
If we take for example animals..from where the whole alpha thing originated i presume the alpha male will have that respect but actually go and fvck the females not just stand around feeling macho_Of course the simple "go and ****" is alot more complex nowadays..point is he would do it without hesitation.
 

Call_Me_Daddy

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L777 said:
This is where non-alpha PUAs (in terms of gentics) have the advantage, because they have the knowledge to become better than the Alpha males, in theory.
What a crock of ****. You're analyzing ths way too much.
So much, that what you write doesn't even make a shred of sense.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Not all alpha males are leaders of entire countries.
 

L777

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Call_Me_Daddy said:
What a crock of ****. You're analyzing ths way too much.
So much, that what you write doesn't even make a shred of sense.
It really does mate, read it over again and try and let it sink in...:rolleyes:
 

Obsidian

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About the only time this would be true is if the alpha male is very athletic and sociable but has some serious handicap when it comes specifically to girls. He could have a phobia of women, or he might just say really dumb things every now and then that turn women off, or he might be incredibly ugly or something.

Nonetheless, these handicaps would have to be very severe to significantly counteract women's attraction to his testosterone-filled life.
 
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