"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Not a flame on the poster but

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That little bit by Jariel about how to handle being dumped has its value and the guy makes good points so I guess my issue is not with the poster but rather the site. The poster openly admits to remaining in a relationship with a girl who is trying to get with her ex. A girl who tries to make dates and whines to this guy about her ex. What? Granted they may or may not have been exclusive but regardless, such (and i hate using the term) an AFC move. Cmon there are guys on here that arent the swiftest and will sit in some relationship like that going yeah I know my girl does that. Seriously Jariels post may be a decent thread for discussion but a one way advice column. NO WAY.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Why not a flame on the poster?

Jariel's advice has basically always been geared to the AFC mindset. Some of the sh!t I've seen him spew in the past on here has been appalling, not forgetting the times he tagged teamed with that jaded, penis envying toe rag on here for awhile, it was a fvckin embarrassing site to behold indeed. Like a bad day at Loveshack.

Pay it no heed.
 
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( . )( . ) said:
Why not a flame on the poster?

Jariel's advice has basically always been geared to the AFC mindset. Some of the sh!t I've seen him spew in the past on here has been appalling, not forgetting the times he tagged teamed with that jaded, penis envying toe rag on here for awhile, it was a fvckin embarrassing site to behold indeed.

Pay it no heed.
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Are you talking about that Destini9 woman or whatever the hell her name was? The 40-year-old who started that website to rival this one?
 
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Is there a post or thread you can link us to. I'm not sure what you're referring to.
 
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No offence taken. My advice has always been aimed at the recovering AFC from the perspective of a former AFC.

Yeah, it was dumb and pathetic trying to maintain a relationship with a girl pursuing her ex, but that's the point of my post. I learned from the experience and shared it with you guys.

Titman, I suspect, is a keyboard jockey in the menopause. I've never seen any plausible advice or evidence of this guy's success in the field.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Jariel said:
No offence taken. My advice has always been aimed at the recovering AFC from the perspective of a former AFC.

Yeah, it was dumb and pathetic trying to maintain a relationship with a girl pursuing her ex, but that's the point of my post. I learned from the experience and shared it with you guys.

Titman, I suspect, is a keyboard jockey in the menopause. I've never seen any plausible advice or evidence of this guy's success in the field.
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Hey Jariel,

I haven't seen you around lately. I thought you left the site. Guess i just overlooked your posts.

As always, I agree with most of your posts because we have the same mindset.

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