"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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not 1, not 2, but 3 different girls...

franchise21

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well first off, i am in high school... I am going on a foreign exchange in 2 months, and i have need some advice on this strange situation...

girl 1) shes about a 5, shes very nice and has been a good friend for a long time and recently told me that she has a crush on me, i told her i don't think of her like that...

girl 2)shes a 7-8, kind of a slut and talks to lots of guys, i told her that i like her and she told me that she KIND of likes me back, but i don't know how to respond to that, it looks like she kind of likes a few other guys to...but she'll give it up pretty easy...

girl 3)shes a 9-9.5, absolutely one of the hottest girls i have ever seen, i have never told her that i liked her but i have taken her to the movies, out to eat, and even over to my house by her self a few times...

some other information... girl 1 and girl 2 are pretty good friends and girl 1 thinks that i don't like her because i like girl 2... girl 2 told girl 3 that i like girl 3, and girl 3 said she was "oblivious" to it... Girl 1 teased me about liking girl 3 for a long time...

like I said, im leaving in 2 months, which makes me not want to try for girl 3 because she is too...almost perfect.... and i would miss her too much and would feel liek a prick leaving behind....
i really would like to get in girl 2's pants, and wouldn't mind leaving her behind, haha...

any comments/ideas??
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Fvck girl 2 and 3. Then, while your on the plane you can think about the pvssy you got!
 

oakraiderz2

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Stop telling girls you like them. Hook up with 2 and 3. Bam
 
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